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When Are We Woman Going To Respect Ourselves

7 posts on this thread and the last post was on August 7th, 2006 5:12 PM
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mayi - July 31st, 2006 2:59 AM
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i am a 26 years old single mother of 2.i am young but i have seen a lot in my life.the father of my kids is a cheater and even though we werent married, i felt betrayed more than anything.i always try to put myself in other peoples shoes, try to understand why they do such or such thing.i dont think that any of you women choose to hurt people just for fun but i do believe that we human are selfish and that we only think about the momentarily pleasure that we are going to gain .we just think about the moment and even though we hear that little voice saying no we do it anyway.well not everyone ,some people knows how to control thenselves.well i just know one thing :we woman need to be stronger than this, respect ourselves, try to get to know a man before we sleep with him, or at least use protection so that a child doesnt have to be brought into this drama.i am not judging anyone, i am so hurt to see that we women only know how to call each other names when we should be supporting each other.if we were stronger than i know that it would be harder for men to cheat on their wives.I know that no woman wants to go threw all the drama that comes with dating a married men.i have 8 brother i am the only girl of my family, i have some the most craziest story from my brothers, and my brothers friends and most of them who were cheating on their wives said they were just cheating for sex or to have some spice because they were bored.they also were saying that they would never leave their wives and children.i mean some might but come on a cheat will always be a cheat.men think with their dick we women needs to be stronger than that and think with our heads.BE STRONG , WE NEED TO HELP EACH OTHERS, LETS MAKE IT HARD FOR THOSE MEN.i know you guys are going to say that sounds utopist but at least it wont hurt anyone to try to take time to build a relationship.when you take time the good man stay the one who wants sex usually gives up.


mommie2b - August 2nd, 2006 6:17 PM

Don't blame just the man it takes two do have sex and its just as much the woman's fault as a mans. I totally agree with you we do need to respect ourselves and love ourselves.


mummy_tummy#3 - August 5th, 2006 12:19 PM

Since when did we not respect ourselves or not love ourselves because we slept withmarried men? Your right, its both parties fault that it happened.


Jenny2 - August 6th, 2006 1:48 AM

Mayi- i agree with you 100%. but it takes a strong woman to realize that , which some really really don't on here. If mummy tummy is married , i really hope her husband cheats on her. then i'd like to hear her defend people sleeping with other peoples partners.



mayi - August 7th, 2006 1:52 PM

mummy tummy i am trying to open your eyes , would you want your daughter to have a relationship with a married man ?
you have to understand,it is not healthy.
and mommie2b, i am not only blaming the men ,i am saying that we woman shouldnt act like them , we should be stronger than that. i know it takes 2 to tango but if we woman were stronger it would make it harder for them.


mummy_tummy#3 - August 7th, 2006 3:06 PM

Jenny2 - I am married. My husband is better than all these men who cant keep it in their pants though. And for the record, my last boyfriend before my husband did cheat and get another lady pregnant but instead of acting childish and going around whining oh its thats sluts fault i acted mature and left that jerk and instead of calling her names and blaming her i let her have him so she can find out on her own who he really was. I dont feel the need to sit around blaming anyone or act childish and calling her names. Im sure she will find out once a cheater always a cheater.They were grown-ups and they made their decisions on their own. It all worked out for the best with me anyways. I met my husband and im 25 weeks pregnant with our second daughter and im happy. Jenny stop acting childish and hoping my husband cheats. I highly doubt it will ever happen but i wont be sitting around waiting for it or worring over it unless it does. Jenny if you cant handle grown- up talk then take your childness attitude to the teen forum.


Jenny2 - August 7th, 2006 5:06 PM

mummy-tummy- i am all in favour of tolerance of intolerance for things that are really wrong. Like mayi said, the world is the way it is because we IGNORE things that are wrong, instead of facing them. the insensitivity that you show defending a woman who knowingly sleeps with a married man -shows how far gone your morals are. and i don't believe for a second that if a woman slept with your husband while knowing he was married to you, that you would be defending her the way you are defending these women now. I find it hard to believe that you were cheated on- it sounds like you were doing the cheating- why else do you have a need to so emphatically defend them? If you were cheated on , you may point out that ihe is most definitely an asshole too- but not completely deny that these women did anything wrong. Thats just pathetic. I think YOU should grow up- you act like a little teenager looking from some drama. Be little moral and mature please.


Jenny2 - August 7th, 2006 5:12 PM

oh-and seeing that you find this as something totally normal- why do you care if your husband cheats on you with another woman??? oh- is it because it will make you SAD????? well then that woman should NOT be helping him hurt you- especially deliberately. use your logic instead of your emotions for once.