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Why Sleep With A Married Man?

14 posts on this thread and the last post was on August 11th, 2006 3:14 PM
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mommie2b - August 6th, 2006 6:04 PM
[Original Post]

I don't know why women sleep with married men and knowing that they are pregnant and want them to leave there wife and family for them. If a married man is going to cheat on his wife don't you think he is going to do it to you aswell? Yea he will and plus its not fair to the wife and children thats just being a homewrecker why not find someone that is single not married leave the married ones alone. And another thing why bash them for when you knew he was married and you knew he was not going to leave his wife for you so why bash them, call them names when its just as much your fault cause you had sex with them? All I can say is if you sleep with another womans man your a slut I could go on but I am not. I know I will have alot of women on here giving me hell for what I said but its true and unless you are that dumb you know its true to.


sonotec75 - August 6th, 2006 6:11 PM

It takes 2 to have an affair. Why only blame the woman when the man is the one lying and can't keep his dick in his pants. The man is just as much the homewrecker as the woman. Especially when the man is the one that has the prego wife at home and still chooses to cheat.


mommie2b - August 6th, 2006 6:13 PM

I know that but why does the woman go ahead and sleep with him knowing that he is married? He married women do it to so its just the same


sonotec75 - August 6th, 2006 6:25 PM

Some women are so blind. The men lie. My ex had told his now wife that we were separated and divorcing. WRONG. I come home and she was there. Why did she not stop seeing him I don't really know. I get along with both of them now, especial for my sons sake. Do I see complete trust on her side? No, he has cheated on her but she feels that she can do no better. It has to constantly be in the back of her mind at what she did to me. What will make him not do it to her? It's a sad situation.



LaurenKaylyn17 - August 6th, 2006 8:56 PM

I think the woman is just as much a homewrecker as the married man is an asshole and a cheater. But you know what? I notice how the ladies who try and steal the married man try to play the victim all the time. Both of the people deserve to have the blame put on them.


Jenny2 - August 7th, 2006 8:11 AM

If the guy lied to her, of course its not her fault (but if she carries on seeing him after she finds out, then it becomes hers too). Sonotec- the two women who started the pregnant by a married man threads both aknowleged that they new he was married straight from the begining, and no divorce proceedings were started yet. That makes them just as much at fault as the guy. In a way, i do see it as more their fault, cos the guy didn't force them, and therefore, it was in their hands completley wether it was going to happen or not. it 's the womans "yes" or "no" that makes the potential into actuality, and thats a huge responsibility.


KSosa4021 - August 7th, 2006 12:45 PM

dont commenrt unless your in the situation... PLEASE... its difficult to see how you all think u know what your talking about... you cant judge unless u been there... thanks


mayi - August 7th, 2006 2:06 PM

those woman just have low self esteem they think they cant get a single man, or are too weak to leave man when they find out he is married. it is really sad



mummy_tummy#3 - August 7th, 2006 2:40 PM

Why is everyone so concerned with who women sleep with? If your not sleeping with a married man then dont concern yourself with what they are thinking. I dont think its any of your business. And i also think they dont have to explain anything to you!Leave them all alone, get a life and stop worring yourselves over shit that dont concern you.


mayi - August 7th, 2006 3:11 PM

it concerns me because i have been a victim of those type of woman.i am the type of person who tries to make things better not just ignore wrong things. if everyone was like that, this world would be very sad.it is because of people who try to make things better that those woman even have the opportunity to do the things that they are doing.


mommie2b - August 7th, 2006 4:12 PM

My best just went through a divorce because of her husband and this one woman which they were having an affair for over 7 months but the woman knew he was married but it didn't phase her to keep on sleeping with him and thats what I do not understand when you are married you are not suppose to cheat you are suppose to be loyal and faithful.


tiphanai - August 11th, 2006 2:20 AM

Let's face it, men are like dogs by nature. And i don't mean this in a bashing way, i mean just like dogs they hunt and sniff and like to conquer. I do love men, but in my heart i really feel like women are the stronger sex. Because of this i think if all women stopped allowing men to satisfy their doggy urges we'd all be in a better place. We're stronger and smarter therefore i think the responsibility lies more on us to not play with another womans dog.


meeshy - August 11th, 2006 2:45 AM

i agree 100%


mayi - August 11th, 2006 1:27 PM

So do i !!!! That is exactely how i feel !


tiphanai - August 11th, 2006 3:14 PM

So how do we get this message across to other women? I tried to start this Sisterhood thing with my girlfriends. I know it sounds corny but the premise is, if everyone is so worried their man is going to cheat on them, let's take the first step and stop messing with guys who are already involved. The girls who love the drama are the ones who never really bought into it. I mean, can't they see that karma is a mofo and you always reap what you sow?