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Almost 3 Months Preg- Should I Stay With FOB?

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on January 30th, 2006 10:11 PM
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ladyj29 - January 30th, 2006 8:19 PM
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I am not sure what I should do- the father & I have known eachother for a year but only seriously dated for about 5 months... he moved in with me when we found out I was pregnant- he says he loves me & wants to make a life together. He works 2 jobs & goes to school. Our relationships consists of sharing a bed & breakfast for 1 hour on saturdays. When he does have time to spend with me - he goes out drinking with his friends or looks at porn on the net... When I asked him about it- he said he never had a transition period... He thinks it's ok to stay out sometimes all night as long as he is "being good" & he calls. I don't know what to think or how to handle this. I am always alone & very depressed. I need help...

maren - January 30th, 2006 10:11 PM

well that is a tough one. Well honestly the only way he is going to know that your sad and feeling depresed is if you tell him. How long have you two been living together a month or so? when he brings up the fact that he has had no transition period tell him, well neither have i and i dont get one this baby is on its way and it wont stop. true its early but both of you need to sit down and figure out what each of you have to do to get ready for the baby. If he cant hold to it well...it makes it hard for you to be with him. Now do you have real feelings for him or is it that you two are having a child and want to be together to be a "family"