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1 posts on this thread and the last post was on August 18th, 2004 8:40 PM
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K - August 18th, 2004 8:40 PM
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My husband and I have been having problems for a while now. I have been wanting a divorce. I cheated on him one night (I know I made a huge mistake) and am now 4 weeks pregnant. I told my hubby everything and he wants me to have an abortion. I haven't told the other guy. Up until now I have been against abortion, but considering the circumstances, I think it is the best option. I know I could go with adoption, but I know if I see the baby, I'll want to keep it. If I have it, I'll be alone. I was raised by a single mom, and don't want my child to go through the same. Help!

dee - August 18th, 2004 8:40 PM

its a crazy stuation but you can get through it. firrst you have to be real with your self how much does not not havibg an abortion mean to you and how much does your marrage mean
your husband feels like he cant exept you with a child but does he know who child it is. i think cousenling would help
but your husband has to understand the baby is not the mistake it was the action. if he is willing to forgive you then that means everything you dont believe n abortion but that is a very personal decision. you need to talk more and let him know you love him
thats why you told him. but some people can forget easier when there is no reminder. you need to seek a marriage proffesional to help both of you. but think before anything you do and dont let fear make your desicion.