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Confused W/ Who The Father Is Please Help!!

8 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 16th, 2005 12:52 PM
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allison - December 14th, 2005 11:19 AM
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I've was with my boyfriend for about a year, and we had unprotected sex for about 2 months trying to have a baby. But nothing happened. Things got a little rocky, so we decided to be friends (with benefits), and we broke up March 31. My LMP started on march 16th... We had sex March 30th, and April 4th.... Also, I got drunk& had unprotected sex with another man one time on april 10th(and told me after he "sorta" pulled out)... I am hoping that the boyfriend is the baby's father...We have a paternity test After the baby's born, but who do u think is the father!?!?


hottmomaof6 - December 14th, 2005 1:21 PM

your boyfriend should be. good luck on the test ......when is your baby due? How is your "boyfriend"reacting to this? If you eant to talk Im here

Jen - December 14th, 2005 2:33 PM

think its you bf also.. usually ovualate about 7 - 10 days after lmp.. good luck.

j - December 14th, 2005 5:31 PM

Depends on your cycke - it could be your bf, but then if you have a long cycle then it could very well be the other dude...


allison - December 14th, 2005 9:09 PM

I'm due dec. 20th my boyfreinds excited and all involved, and his mom is soo happy, and itll suck if it wasnt his, everyone would hate me


j - December 15th, 2005 3:41 AM

But it'll suck more if it's not his and you pretend it is and they find out later due to something down the road - imagine how pissed they will be then....

Jen - December 15th, 2005 5:53 PM

good luck allison.. i hope it turns out to be your bfs.. a dna test will prove paternity.but so will little things, like how the baby looks.. lips eyes mouth fingers etc.. your march 30 th date is probably your best bet for conseption. on a 28 day cycle..still think its his.... april 10 th would put you too close to you next period.. does he know you where with the other guy?

allison - December 16th, 2005 12:21 AM

yeah he knows about the other guy... thanks for the help, i cant wait to have this baby!!



jen - December 16th, 2005 12:52 PM

good then all the power to you for being honest... :)