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Wow, you really got screwed. I would prove the baby is his by having a praternity test once the baby comes and at least make him financially responsible for the baby. I'm glad you are still going to have the baby, and your right, you will do fine. Who needs a guy like that? Although they don't all lie, unfortunately alot of them do to get what they want. Feel free to vent whenever you need to.

Wel congrats on your baby!!!!!! F**K him ....you deserve more like the oportunity to bring a life into this world. That is "jerky" guys #1 line they use when they are in denial....isn't it funny that woman are the only ones that are suppose to protect them selves...lol .....yes we should protect ourselves but if we don't it is funny how we are to blame for ruining a "boys" life, or the "baby" isn't mine or the famous one "have an abortion"....good luck to you girl!!!!

Yes they all lie and are FULL of shi% ! The same thing happpened to me. I am keeping my baby screw him!

unfortunately, sometimes it takes a pregnancy to bring out the true person in a man. i'm glad you're staying strong for you and your baby.

maybe you should be more concerend about finding your real baby daddy instead of trying to pin it on some poor guy... shame on you!

My experience has been YES they all lie at somepoint.
Now I have asked these question to my self repeatedly. Do all me lie? Do all men cheat?
Based on both men I have been involved with and EVRY MAN I have ever even met. The answer to both sadly is yes.

Good luck to you!

Hayley123 - ummm she knows who the father is - reread the post - she was being sarcastic! So maybe shame on you.............

yes, they are all the same I am in the same boat but I broke my relationship off at 20 weeks, I went through the deny stage the first part of my PG. He promised me the world, he proposed to me one weekend and the next he was out with another girl then another, but he says that everything I go through is all my fault and I could of prevented it. Because I am PG I am a whore!!! He call my unborn child a bastard, when I asked him if wanted to feel it move, that was his reply. Then I am constantly verbally abused, oh but don't be fooled I am physically abused too. When I speak up about something that I don't like I am a control freak and bio-polar. I just don't know but I realized that being single is headache free and happy.

i think the key to marriage must be to put up with it. i always end up with the dumb liar guys. maybe we're just horrible at picking men.

yup..all men lie..at least thats been my experience...my boyfriend did basically the same thing...just make sure you get child support!

ok can anyone help me figure this one out?
I am 31. I dated the father of my baby several years ago and we broke up. We were very young and it was over a decade ago. We reunited onlineand met in person about 3 months ago and guess what??? I m 3 months pregnant. The kicker is after we had sex twice and I started shying away from him feeling like he just wasnt the one for me but now that Im pregnant I feel like I should give him a chance and try to get to know him better. Meanwhile when I shyed away I stopped returning his calls and started giving him the cold shoulder, This ismy first baby and I had terribble moring sickness during this time as well. when I found out I was pregnant I told him right away. His response was he was gonna be there for the baby and wanted to date and have a relationship. It has been 1 MONTH AND HALF since I have told him I was pregnant. Weve talked on the phone a couple of times and all he says is he cares for me and the baby and wants to work thungs out but has made no effort to see me or check on me in fact I have called him several times and he dosnt return my calls. I dont know what to do. On top of this he has 3 kids from a previous relationship. He seees his kids every other weekend. And did tell me he had mixed feeings about having another child. I dont know whether to wait to see if he comes around once the childs born or just move onto avoid a rollercoaster of emotion

yes all men lie! sorry but its true all men lie rather its to hurt you or not they all lie its all they really know how to do!

NO NOT ALL MEN LIE - sorry but I just dont believe that - now I know SOME men lie but so do SOME women, just like SOME men cheat and SOME women cheat, but to put all men into a category like that is just wrong. I know a lot of men in loving relationships with their girlfriends / wives with children or without children - great, caring men ARE out there.