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3 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 16th, 2009 3:06 PM
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shaketheglitter - September 12th, 2009 6:36 PM
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i hooked up with an old friend and now i'm freaking out that i might be pregnant. it's too early to test, and i know i shouldn't be worrying myself about it yet but i am. this guy, he's apparently in a relationship... that i had NOOOO idea about. he has a kid, and i knew that but the way he was coming onto me... i just sorta assumed he was single. but yeah, no. so... crap, now if i DO end up that i'm pregnant... i don't know how i'd tell him. or her. i don't know if i'd tell her or expect him to. ugh... i know i should just... chill. but based on my cycle + lack of protection + the end result, i know the chances are super high that i could be having his kid. i don't even know him well enough anymore to know how he'd react. i'm sorta beyond freaked.

Grandpa Viv - September 14th, 2009 10:39 PM

Even under the best of conditons the chance of pregnancy is only about 30%. Did you take Plan B, anytime up to 5 days later, but the sooner the better? Come back if you start experiencing early pregnancy signs like weird cramps, tired, peeing more, lotion discharge, dreams, backache, boob and nip changes, lightheaded moments, emotional upsets, acne, runny nose, upset gut, weird smells and appetite changes, all where different from normal PMS. Good luck!

shaketheglitter - September 15th, 2009 4:16 PM

no, i didn't take a plan b. i had a weird cramp about a week after ovulating... it was similar to a period cramp, kinda... but it was more like someone was squeezing me rather than just the constant crampy feeling. and it only lasted maybe an hour. i work evenings, so usually i dont go to sleep til around 1 am, but last night i was ready to pass out before 10 pm. i have been peeing like CRAZYYYY and the vma awards made me cry the other night. ive had a bit of an upset stomach, sort of like being hungover sans puking. but i don't know if these are just... cause its on my mind or what. the one that really sticks out is the cramp. cause that was just weird.

Grandpa Viv - September 16th, 2009 3:06 PM

Some women describe "a tugging feeling" around implantation. You have a few other signs, but your mind may just be playing tricks. Wait to test until a "normal" period is overdue. Good luck!