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Im 19 And Just Found Out Im Gonna Have A Baby

3 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 16th, 2005 1:12 AM

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Christina - May 31st, 2005 6:45 PM

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im 19 and about to turn 20,i just found out that im gonna have a baby with my ex.things between me and him are pretty on and off one min i love you and the next i cant be wit u.now both of us have a bright furture he is going to school for law and im in school for fashion design,the reson y we broke up is so we can do our own thing with out any attachments...and now man oh man were gonna have a baby....i dont know what to do!? i dont wanna give up my dream and i dont want him to eather.can u really do it all?can u still travel,go to school,work all that stuff will a little one at ur side....i know i should of been more careful but me and the dad are going different ways.....im scared

Shelly - May 31st, 2005 11:00 PM

Dear Christina. I admire your courage and devotion for an answer to the question of : What is best for the future of me and my unborn baby? I know in life, fate throws us a few curve balls. There are people like my and my husband and we have been looking to adopt for over four years now. I know that is an option that could help you and you child. You must be so loving and unselfish as to put the needs of you child before all else. Please give us a call and we can talk. We already have our home study and background check and can pay for all legal and medical bills and things the law allows us to. If this is something you need to think more about, you could talk to a social worker for the right answer. I know the state has programs that will help you financially after you place your baby for adoption plus help you with school. Our heart are open if you would like to share with us concerns. We are open for sending letters, photos and having yearly visits if you wish. 801-985-6778 Sterling and Shelly

Christina - June 15th, 2005 11:51 PM

Ive lost it, :'(

Ashley - June 16th, 2005 1:12 AM

Hi christina i'm pretty much in the same boat. im also about to be 20 as well im about to start my second year in college and i am pregnant. At first i was scared but i am exstatic now. I manage to go to school full time, and work. sometimes its hard but i know i'm doing the right thing i could never give my baby away never and i couldnt have an abortion either. I know that everything will be okay, you can still have your dreams while having a child. if you'd like to chat or have any questions feel free to e-mail me anytime msdlight@msn.com i hope to hear from you soon

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