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Any single moms feel used? i don't know how to describe it, i just feel like it and i kind of feel bad that i won't have a complete family.i know i wouldn't be happy with him though. :(

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Hi Jenna- I am not a single mom, but I just wanted to say your daughter is beautiful.

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I know what u mean. I constantly think about it. We know that the guy is worthless but yet we feel like he should have stuck around so that the baby could grow up with a complete family. Yet if it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be we can't change that. But if anything having the baby is worth the heartbreak :) atleast thats what I've come to realize. Don't let your mind dwell on it too much. In a way we were used but we have the chance to be happy too.

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thanks clindholm :) i tend to dwell on it to. i try not to but it just gets to me sometimes. i also really hope she will still grow up without any problems because of it. i also want more kids one day but i don't wanna be a mom with kids from 10 diff fathers,i hate it cuz it seems like i'll never find someone :(

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You are so young, I'm sure you will find a man that will treat you and your daughter they way you deserve to be treated. You are smart enough to know that he is not good for you or your daughter, so it seems to me that you have a good head on your shoulders. Keep doing what is best for your dd and yourself. It may not seem like it now, but it will get better.

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