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Please answer my questions as I don't want to be pregnant until im 16 or older.

I answered in the General section, but you give more detail here. Your mom is not doing the parenting thing well, and perhaps was not well parented herself. I expect the boyfriend is in the same boat. If you want to enjoy the next 60 years of your life, your plan to avoid pregnancy for a few more years is on the right track. You might even decide to extend that by another ten years. Please get a grip on your sex life. No more penis anywhere near the vagina without a condom, anytime. Make your mom keep you supplied, as the bf seems too selfish to care. The safest time for sex is in the week before your period comes. In your situation perhaps the Depo-Provera shot is your best plan. Google that. You can likely get it at your county Health Department. GL!

I do not condone a 13 y/o having sex, but since it's the decision you have made i'll try and answer your question the best i can. I think the best thing for you to do is for you, your mom and your bf to go to planned parenthood and find out what the best options are for you, AND IT IS NOT THE "SUCKING" METHOD. I guarentee if that continues to be your birth control method you will very likely end up pregnant. Also no matter what birth control method you choose (the pill, depo shot etc..) your bf should always wear a condom as well. There is a good chance his friends were not wearing them properly or they were being stored in less than ideal conditons or they were expired. This would be another thing to talk about at planned parenthood, how to properly put on a condom.

And please consider this, most women are fertile until their mid to late 30's and some even into their early 40's, You have plenty of time to have a baby, please reconsider trying for one while you are a teenager. I could probably write 10 paragraphs on why it's a good idea to wait. Bottom line though it's so much better if your finish your education first and become financially independent from your parents.

Kay. At 13, you're still a baby yourself, and you shouldn't be having sex to begin with. I mean, gross. You've probably only just started to develop. And you boyfriend? A retard. And so is your mom for telling you that it'd be fun to get pregnant as a teen. 16 Is NOT a good age to have a baby. At least finish school, unless you really wanna be a waitress for the rest of your life. Seriously? I read this and wanted to be sick. Get a brain, kid.