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I forgot to mention that I had sex and now my stomach is a little bigger.

hey, the first thing you should know, Is " you are not alone." I mean that. There are many out there that are feeling the way you are and can understand. I know you are scared and i know you are afraid to tell and all you want is to know for sure. Step one: Finding Out. I hope you have a loving and supportive boyfriend, who is right by your side right now, and if you have not told him- i hope if you are and you tell him that he is that way. A pritty simple way to find out is to take a home pregnancy test-

You need to take a pregnancy test.

A Christmas Day baby on the way?? Let me guess that your situation is such that you are not able to get a pregnancy test. Please ask the school nurse for help, walk into the Health Department, or phone Planned Parenthood at 1-800-230-PLAN. You can add me as ppowb on AIM or Yahoo chat. Good luck!

thanks for all the help... so...i took a home pregnancy test and it came back positive. I am SOOO scared that i don't even know what to do! I can't be 13 and responsible for another life. Heck..my parents are responsible for me until i am older. I haven't even told them yet and am now almost 3 mos. What the heck do I do now..I am sooo scared and don't know what to do!

put it this way...lets say you have loving and supportive parents and you tell them, and theyre all disappointed at first but then you start looking all cute with ur pregnant belly and everyone starts giving you baby clothes and things and you find out the gender and then your parents will most likely start to lighten up and actually look forward to the new addition to the family! then when the baby is born your parents are so excited about the baby and its hard at first but you get the hang of it and you work things out to try to finish school and lets say due to any complications you finish highschool at 19 by that time your baby is probably guna be about 5 and stating kindergarden so you can totally go to college while hes at school then by the time you get ur bachelor degree hes 8, u get ur career going hes (or shes) 10 to 12, and it will all work out and whatever happens with the dad happens and either way is gunna have to help support the baby with you your child is a blessing! and beautiful, i hope all goes well :D

Instead of being worried, you need to get on top of a few things since you are pregnant. You will need to tell your parents because you need to go to a doctor for blood tests and other things like ultrasounds and tests. The doctor needs to make sure everything is ok with your pregnancy. It's a very big deal because at 13 your still growing and you dont want any complications. So make sure u get on that right away!!! Also, You need to to some sort of multi vitamin for the baby. YOU need to ask the doctor which one is ok for you to take because you are young. There are girls that are your age and they have wonderful babies and make great mothers. You just need to keep your head up because now you will be a mother and not the child anymore. Tell ur parents straight forward because serisouly? your a mother now you will have to make many decisions for ur child and for yourself. from legal to medical to daycare all that stuff. Good luck and if you need to chat just msg me back

tell your parents what all happened. the worst they could do is yell at you for the next few weeks/months. thats what happened to me.
tell your boyfriend whats going on, if he really loves you he'll stay with you if hes a total dumb ass(sorry for the language)then you dont need him. most guys just want the good part and dont want the responsibilities that come with it. all the advice i have for you is tell your parents A.S.A.P, tell your boyfriend, stay in school, and focus on being a god parent when the time comes. hang out with friends as much as possible cuz when the baby comes you wont have any time to spend with them.
if you wanna talk im here for you. btw, im 14 and 10 weeks away from having a little girl.

thanx so much. Congrats on ur baby....I want a little girl, too! :) A couple questions:
1. how did u tell the baby's father
2. how did u tell ur parents
3. when did u start to show
4. when did u start to feel the baby

thanks!

thanks :] when i found out i was having a little girl i was so happy.
i told him to come over to my house and that i had a surprise for him. so when he came over he could tell i was crying and he asked me what was wrong and i wrote it out for him then when he looked at it he was really shocked.

i was in school still when i took that pregnancy test and one of my best friends bought me like 3 or 4. so we were in the bathroom one morning before school started and all of them came out + once i found that out i got chicken skin through out my whole body. and i was sitting in class listening to music and i decided to text my mom. i was like mom...and she texted back saying yeah? and i was like im....im...pregnant. and she was like im coming to get you now and i was like ok. so the whole ride home she was saying that she didnt think that i would do something like that and she wasnt gonna tell my dad i had to. so that night at dinner i was like dad, im pregnant. he was really shocked, he didnt say anything. but for the next few weeks all i heard was i cant believe you did that, blah blah blah.

i started to show when i was 12 weeks. yes, she is a big girl. haha.

the first time i felt the baby was probably when i was around 17 and 20 weeks.

if you have anymore questions just ask them all to me, i would love to answer them.

oh and btw if your on any teams i would tell them now. when i told my cheer squad that i was pregnant they told me that the head cheer spot would be handed over to my best friend and that when i was ready to come back i still had the spot. my boyfriend never got kicked off the football team, hes still the captain. so nothings gonna affect your boyfriend if word gets out at school.

Baby's father - "remember what we did at the beginning of April - I haven't had a period since". Parents - "Mom, I know I haven't been myself lately, but there's a reason." Chances are you will not be able to hide this past the beginning of the fall semster. For a first pregnancy, you might start to feel movement in four to six weeks. You and the baby need to have a doctor check-up right soon. Please confide in your mom. Good luck!

thanks for all you answers...JT1118 thank you so much. You know what I am going thru. I just don't know how to tell my mom because I know no one is gonna believe me on this but it is the honest truth. I have never had sex. I was in a pool with a couple of guys and one ejaculated near me. I had all the symptoms of pregnancy so I went to my doctor and took a test and it came back positive. This isn't something that I would've chosen for my life this young. I play so many sports and love to hang out with friends but this is gonna change my life completely! Tho in a couple weeks I get to find out the gender of the baby. Mayb that is how I can tell my mom. B like..."will u plz come to my ultrasound appt. today because I really need u ther for me and my baby"

your welcome. i love helping other teens my age. :]
just tell your mom this isnt a lie im telling the full honest truth then tell her the whole story of how it happened. just dont get to much into detail then you'll feel uncomfortable.
so you got pregnant by the guy that ejaculated?

if i were you i would quit all the sports now then after the pregnancy if you still wanna do them go back and join.
does your school allow pregnant teens?
tell all your friends then after that watch the ones who stay to help and support you and watch the other ones walk right out of your life. then you'll know who your true friend really are.
aww, how exciting!
i wish you all the luck with you and your mom.

ya i got pregnant by the guy who ejaculated but he is one of the meanest kids at school and i hardly know him. It would be very hard to go up to him and be like "ummm, I am pregnant with ur baby"... u no? I don't know if my school allows pregnant teens but there are 2,000 kids and I am guessing that it would b very hard to explain to everyone of them that i didn't have sex before rumors spread. None of my friends believe me that this could be happening...they are all like "haha that is impossible" but I went to 2 dr. and i m so I dont know how to get them to understand. Some friends have gone out of my life because of this but I am trying to convince my friends that if this hadn't happened to me it would still b the same...it is not like I chose this or wanted it to happen but right now I need support from friends because I know that this journey is gonna be full of adventure and I can't do it alone. Just one question...are u keeping ur baby or adoption because I want to keep mine so bad but all my friends are like that is not an option ur in 7th grade and both my parents work but this is my baby and I want to keep it :)

oh by the way i found a very cute website at morphthing.com and u can take a picture of u and the baby's father and it shows what the baby might look like!

since you hardly know him as one of your friends to tell him, maybe that will be easier for you. if your friends dont believe you thats there fault. when you get the ultrasound pics show them, then they'll be conceived that its real and not fake. well with 2,000 people they might not notice that much but you should still tell the school. are you at a public school? cuz i go to a private school and just the high school we have 2,000 people and in the beginning of my pregnancy they didnt know that i was pregnant till i told my cheer squad. but at my school they let pregnant teens stay.

i am keeping the baby, my mom is a stay at home mom with my 2 little brothers so she said that she was gonna watch her while i was at school and when i came home she was my responsibility. 7th grade is a VERY young age to keep a baby and since your not even close to the age of getting a job and the baby dad has no clue that he has a baby on the way you should think about adoption.

i went on that website and it was very funny i have to say. me and my friends went on there and we did me and my BD then after that we did all different kinds of people from our yearbook.