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I Dont Know What To Think Or Expect.... I Just Need Opinons?

6 posts on this thread and the last post was on March 22nd, 2009 6:11 PM
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goofyface303 - March 22nd, 2009 8:57 AM
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My boyfriend and i engaged in nude genital rubbing. He performed oral on me and i then i performed oral on him.He did not penetrate and he did not ejaculate before rubbing or afterwards, nor did he ejaculate during the oral.He also did not ejaculate any that day prior to us fooling around. My only concern is precum but does oral lessen the viablity of precum making me pregnant.. this occured on the 25 day of 31 day cycle.. took plan b within 120 hrs of risk but two days before my expected period which is today? did i miss my period bc of plan b or what? give me your opinions on my situation

took the pills 96-120 hours after risk
what is the probabilty of my pregnancy risk i really need opinions the risk occured on the 13th of march i took a pregnancy test today an was negative however i know it might have been too early


Grandpa Viv - March 22nd, 2009 11:20 AM

Oral does not lessen the viability of precum. Your experience was a week after probable ovulation, and the chance of pregnancy was minimal even with full unprotected sex. Taking PlanB under those circumstances was overkill, and the hormones are going to mess up this cycle. Sexual experimentation moves in only one direction. Learn about your fertile window and avoid sexual contact on those days. Come up with a good plan for contraception for the rest of the month, and implement it stat. Good luck!


amanda17 - March 22nd, 2009 1:58 PM

Yeah that was totally overkill. Your chances were slim in the beginning... I mean there was no penetration or ejaculation and you weren't even ovulating. That's like a.. what? 2% chance of pregnancy? Then you took the plan B pill... so that's a negative 500% chance of pregnancy and you are still worried?? You aren't ready for sexual acts if you are so irrationally freaked out about getting pregnant. That's just my opinion. If you do decide to engage in anything like this again... use birth control.


goofyface303 - March 22nd, 2009 2:44 PM

i agree with you both. Im 19 and this is my first sexually enhanced relationship and ive never really been that close with anyone so im worried. I talked to him about it and we wont be doing anything like that until we say our i do's as i cant readily get birth control with out my parents finding out. We are military and my parents could get access to my files but if you know of anyother way to get birth control please let me know. we plan to get engaged in a year probably near our 2 and a half year anniversary and i dont want things to be messed up... you guy's thoughts are reassuring.

Thank You and sry if i seemed paranoid or annoying,
goofyface303



AddyAndVictoriasMommy - March 22nd, 2009 4:30 PM

Hey, goofyface, the chances of you getting pregnant from that, I mean they are pretty much nonexistent. So take a deep breath and relax, the plan b will cause you to get your period later, if it's a week late that's fine plan b can do that.

Now, if you have money go to your nearest pregnancy clinic or planned parenthood. Google "Pregnancy clinics (zip code here)." You can get birth control.


amanda17 - March 22nd, 2009 4:40 PM

Tess have you heard of planned parenthood express? I was driving around the other day practicing for my test... and I see this huge sign that says "PLANNED PARENTHOOD... EXPRESS!! NOW OPEN!" I was like wtf.... They made it seem like it would be like ordering a cheeseburger instead of birth control haha. What does that even mean? Are they going to have a drive-through window or what?


goofyface303 - March 22nd, 2009 6:11 PM

thank you for another reassuring comment. Im just still worried as im feel nauseated, bloated, and have a loss of appetite i dk if that is just the plan b's side effects or what... im just still worried i took a test today as it is 9-10days since the risk and its a neg but it could be too early to be for certain.... i dk

sry for venting,
goofyface