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I Saw Someone Post This On Baby-gaga

37 posts on this thread and the last post was on March 23rd, 2009 4:17 PM
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amanda17 - March 18th, 2009 12:33 PM
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And I cannot get it out of my head. It is haunting me in the worst way. I barely slept last night, I feel sick to my stomach and so depressed. I can't let Ellie leave my sight, I just want to squeeze her and not let anything happen to her.

I'm referring to the 6 month old baby in New Mexico, Brianna. It happened 6 years ago and is one of the most brutal, and disturbing cases of child abuse in history. I looked up an article online when I saw it mentioned on baby-gaga... I only read a few lines of it and couldn't finish reading it. There was a video posted but I couldn't watch it. I saw that babies beautiful little face and immediately closed the window and cried. It is so fucking disgusting what some people do.... Things you can't even imagine, or just choose not to. I have never heard about anything so heartbreaking, disgusting, and inhuman. There are some things you wish you had remained ignorant about... and I apologize in advance to anyone who choses to look up an article or a video, I just had to say something.


guccigal87 - March 18th, 2009 12:50 PM

:S I dont get it... why did this post upset you???


amanda17 - March 18th, 2009 12:58 PM

I didn't go into detail in case there were people who didn't want to hear it. If you go to google and search "baby brianna new mexico" there will be a link to an article. There will also be a youtube link to a video, but like I said I couldn't watch it.


guccigal87 - March 18th, 2009 1:04 PM

ohhh i was going to say.... i dont see anything in this post that could upset someone but i get you didnt post the story...I went to go read the story... its sad but at least the guys got jail time. Here in canada last year we had a father get to drunk and bring his toddlers into a snow storm in only a diaper.. burried them in snow and left them outside to freeze to death. The kids were 2 and 3 and he had a trail a month ago... got three years in jail.. the native community was so mad they think that is way to much jail time and he should have only gotten community service... and here in canada good behavor gets you only half the timel.. so he killed both his girls and will spend a year and a half in jail... THATS SAD!!



amanda17 - March 18th, 2009 1:20 PM

It is sad. I don't know why it makes a difference in the eyes of the law. If those two girls were adult women then he would have gotten life.
I'm in a great debate with myself over the death penalty; whether I agree with it or not.... Because I believe it's not our place to decide who deserves to live or die, there's no room for error, two wrongs don't make a right etc... but in cases like this.

*WARNING IT GETS GRAPHIC BELOW*

People abusing and murdering CHILDREN. I mean Brianna was 6 months old, SIX MONTHS OLD. Abused every moment of her life since birth. Raped by members of her own family, HER OWN FATHER! HER UNCLE! Her mother biting her all over her body breaking her fragile skin. They would throw her against the wall and rape her on a regular basis and people KNEW about it and never said a word to anyone. They KNEW. Her own grandmother sat by and watched it happen never breathing a word to anyone. She was only six months old and new nothing of a loving family... knew nothing of love at all. Didn't know what it was like to be held or kissed. She was brought into the world only to be tortured to death in the most brutal way. Six fucking months old the day she died and every moment of her life was filled with pain most people will never experience in 100 years of life. I imagine Ellie at six months old... the most precious and wonderful thing in my life. The most pure. I remember clipping her nails and crying because I cut a little bit of her skin. I felt guilty for days afterward by that little cut that she forgot even happened within minutes. I cry every time I take her in for her shots because she doesn't understand. I hold her and comfort her when she bumps her head crawling around and it breaks my heart to see something tiny happen to her... How can someone do that, to their own fucking child. Put them through so much pain. And you gotta think... they kept her alive to do this. 6 months... they had to be feeding her. Probably not a lot, probably just enough for her to survive. Just to keep raping her and beating her. People like that... are the only people I will say do not deserve life. I feel disgusted that we share the same planet. They deserve a fate worse than death. I can think of nothing more purely evil than what they did.


guccigal87 - March 18th, 2009 2:00 PM

you know i kind of beleive in the death penalty. There is no reason to hurt anyone that way. Even if she was 6 years old thats unexceptable! and here where i live we are WAY to leniant on criminals!! i think if you take a life you should have yours taken the same way. None of this put you to sleep, i mean beat you to death make you feel the pain you put on someone else who didnt deserve it.


amanda17 - March 18th, 2009 2:44 PM

Even if those people spent the rest of their lives being raped and abused it's too good for them. Imagine how small a six month is compared to a full grown man's penis. I didn't even know you could rape a baby without killing it in the process. She had been raped multiple times since birth. A tiny little baby. And why would they keep her? Why wouldn't they give her up for adoption or even abort? It makes me think they had a child so they could do this to her. They kept her alive so they could continue to do this to her. Like some fucking sick fantasy everyone in the family was perfectly okay with. It's horrifying.


lynnemtrix - March 18th, 2009 4:55 PM

Holy shit. I never heard this story before, as much as I pay attention to the news. It's horrifying. And they got so little time for it.
Personally, I'd kill them. I'm pretty left wing, but that's one of my strong beliefs. Murders, rapists and pedophiles, I feel, ought to be killed. These people are all three.
It makes me want to cry. I had a bad childhood, but it looks fantastic compared to this poor girls.
Babies, parenthood, it's one of the greatest giftest. After her mother gave birth, didn't she feel anything? Didn't a single one of them feel anything? What a life to have. They'll surely rot in hell.



amanda17 - March 18th, 2009 6:50 PM

I agree I can't imagine what kind of people they were to to all of this to an innocent child and not feel an ounce of guilt. I have never heard of anyone being so damn cold hearted, it's disgusting. I mean I imagine if I knew something like that was going on, I not only would have alerted the police I would have gone straight down there and murdered them myself if I had to. I'd adopt that poor little girl myself if I had to. Anything to get her away from that.


lynnemtrix - March 18th, 2009 8:02 PM

Exactly. I know I would have likely killed them myself. How could you know that something so awful was going on and do nothing? How could you sleep at night? Those who stood by and did nothing are just as bad. They could have saved her and didn't.
I'm not a religious person, but I've been praying for that poor little girl.


AddyAndVictoriasMommy - March 18th, 2009 9:15 PM

I wish I could kill those men and that woman. I would do terrible unthinkable things to them. I read that in tears. I hope they die. I hope someone (too explicit to even say here) to them.


amanda17 - March 18th, 2009 10:00 PM

I didn't finish the article... Did it say what happened to them when they were caught?


lynnemtrix - March 19th, 2009 5:44 AM

The father got 57 years, the uncle 51, and the mother 27. I think the men are going to have their sentences lowered a bit though. I couldn't find anything too definite, as they claimed getting tried together the first time had violated their rights, or some nonsense like that. Either way, they're only stuck in prison.


guccigal87 - March 19th, 2009 12:50 PM

thats still more then the 1.5 years the father got here for killing his two girls and leaving them outside in -30 degree weather to freeze to death


amanda17 - March 19th, 2009 1:24 PM

Yeah that's ridiculous... But still, I'd rather freeze to death then go through what Brianna went through. When you freeze to death the pain is at least numbed for a while, and you die within days I'm guessing? You aren't constantly kept alive to be tortured.. probably hoping for death.

I hope they are all being butt raped and tortured in prison.. and that's more than they deserve.


amanda17 - March 19th, 2009 1:29 PM

Btw this is kind of random... A social worker that I meet with printed out a sheet of all the sex offenders in my neighborhood just to steer clear of them. Anyway my friend (who recently moved out of town with her step mother)'s dad is on there. He molested her after her mother died and went to jail for like 6 years or something like that after turning himself in... and she's been wanting to contact him but he never came back home after he was released. She really loves her dad and she believes he feels sorry and won't do it again since he turned himself in... Anyway he's been out for like 4ish years now and she's been desperately looking for him ever since.. turns out he's my neighbor and I dunno if I should tell her or not?


amanda17 - March 19th, 2009 1:33 PM

Oh and it's not like they are in love with each other... he actually seems like he was a really good father but he just freaked out from being so lonely after his wife died and he did something REALLY fucking nasty AND stupid. Her step mom is abusive and she hates living with her and has always wanted to move back in with her dad... but who knows if he's actually changed you know? It seems like he really doesn't want to hurt her anymore... but what's better... getting abused by your mother or staying with someone who's nice but has sexually abused you and may or may not do it again? Am I even one to decide that for her?