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I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP

149 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 26th, 2008 4:33 PM
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amanda - January 24th, 2005 3:11 PM

egnore these sad acts ok u do what u want 2 do dont forget its ur baby ur carring u got raped but that dont mean u have 2 get rid of the baby hes urs now do the right thing dont get rid of it u might be 13 but all i can do is pray 2 god u will get through it im 15 years old i got raped when i was 13 years old i got rid of it and for the past 2 years all iv done is thought what have i done iv killed my own child now im 15 and preg again and theres no way im getting rid of it the father is 18 and he is willing 2 stand by me all the way my mam is very mad but copeing wid it plz do not do sumthink stupid pray to god thats all im happy im haveing this child well both of us are iv got a nuther sister who is 16 she has just had a baby she was preg at 15 also her bf is 20 she had it on the 5th of jan it was a boy called joseph she is happy so will u be if u have it do u want 2 hold it in ur arms kiss it let it say its first words push it around take it 2 school i would and i am going 2 do that if u wanna chat email me amandawanless2000@yahoo.co.uk good luck hun x x x x


Mommy2Kylie - January 24th, 2005 3:26 PM

BabybeeGirl- I really don't like how you said "whatever you do don't get an abortion" who the hell are you to say that to someone? You don't know her, you don't get to tell her what to do. If she can't handle this baby, or a pregnancy, at 13 thats VERY understandable, and if she does get an abortion thats HER buisness. Don't try and push your opinions on abortion on other people. Its wrong.


KoKo - January 24th, 2005 9:19 PM

Do you really want too keep it.. your only 13..you have sooo much too think about..i wud say listen to your mother.



LynZ - January 25th, 2005 1:04 AM

WOW, what is there to think about...do you lack love or somehting?? Get an abortion, stay in school, go to university, and have kids when your older and ready! Your still a child, you have your whole life ahead of you, dont rob yourself out of a childhood, after all, it only comes once in a lifetime!! Much luck!


Melissa - January 25th, 2005 6:53 PM

Hi Kellyann the same thing happened to me but thait was a year ago and I've had my son now but my rapist was my boyfriends half brother. He knows my son is his and torments me about it and I never told anyone. email me at xhrusten@kiwibox.com to talk more


LIN - January 25th, 2005 8:04 PM

DID YOU DICIED WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT THE BABY YET ??
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molly - January 25th, 2005 10:21 PM

i do think that you should go to school. But if you dont feel well of hurt you should go home. Be strong about this. I do belive that you will pull through this but dont get an abortion i think that it is wrong. i know what it feels like i was raped when i was a little baby. i still have nightmares about it. They will not go away. If you need to talk to someone about what happened to you email me at Lovefordolphins1@aol.com. OK. You will get through this i will help you!!!!!



Hilary - January 26th, 2005 8:45 AM

You guys, she's fake, she came she lied, stirred up the pot and left stop giving her advice!


Andy - January 31st, 2005 12:57 PM

find the scumbag that did it, also always go to school if you get a better education you'll have a beter chance of suceding in life and provide a beter future for your baby and also once the baby is born you'll be able to take a blood test and cacth the scumbag


leah - January 31st, 2005 1:53 PM

if it is ture u hav to keep the baby ok


Kimberly - January 31st, 2005 2:55 PM

you need to go to school as long as you can and when you have the baby when you can get back to school you need ot!


Jewl - February 1st, 2005 1:22 PM

Kellyann, i am 14, and i feel SO bad 4 you! PLEASE DO NOT HAVE AN OBORTION!! Think about that! They would be killing your baby! You need to pray and ask God 4 help! I am a Christian, and i am going to pray 4 you!! God Bless! Jesus loves you!!


Jessica - February 2nd, 2005 8:39 AM

I am 16 years old. I just lost my virginity and also found out i was 7 weeks pregnet. I cant tell my moma and daddy they will be pissed. I never planned to get pregnet. This is not my fault I dont want the damn child. The sex was great I loved but the baby I never asked for. I dont want to be walking down the street pregnet so everyone can talk about me. Talking about how teens are having babies and i am still a baby myself. Screw this damn child I dont want it. What should I do?


Andi - February 2nd, 2005 11:06 AM

To Jessica- I am pro-choice I believe that it is your body and you can do what you want with it. Try visiting a health clinic, like Planned Parenthood. You can look them up on the internet- do a google search. They can tell you what to do about an abortion- it can be pretty pricey- so make sure you have the money- and get half from the father- it takes 2 to tango.


M - February 2nd, 2005 5:10 PM

Aww man, I'm so sorry for you. Rape is a horrible thing to go through. You're an amazingly strong person - especially for wanting to keep the child.

Just explain to your mother that you do not want an abortion. She can't force you afterall. If you do not want to keep the child, you can always put it for adoption. But if you want to keep it then good on you. :) You're boyfriend sounds relaly nice aswell to say he'll bring it up with you.

Good luck in whatever decision you make.


lizzie - February 3rd, 2005 1:13 PM

u are 13 and pregnate you have a whole life a head of you i am 15 and 1 month pregnant i am about to get an abortion i was not raped my boyfriend got me pregnate i never told my mom i was pregnant if i do she will kick me out of the house so i am getting an abortion and if i were you i would get an abortion because that baby was noy made of love it was made by rape and unwanted sex when you are older and you r in love you are going to have a baby and it is going to be made of love