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I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP

149 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 26th, 2008 4:33 PM
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lizzie - February 3rd, 2005 1:13 PM

u are 13 and pregnate you have a whole life a head of you i am 15 and 1 month pregnant i am about to get an abortion i was not raped my boyfriend got me pregnate i never told my mom i was pregnant if i do she will kick me out of the house so i am getting an abortion and if i were you i would get an abortion because that baby was noy made of love it was made by rape and unwanted sex when you are older and you r in love you are going to have a baby and it is going to be made of love


cole - February 6th, 2005 10:35 AM

well i don't know what your going through but you just keep the baby and your boyfriend even though he isn't the father he can act like one to your baby. Go to school after the baby is a little older


Paige - February 6th, 2005 7:53 PM

I may not know what u r going through but i think u should let your b/f be part of it he want to help and i think u should keep the baby. I think u should continue to go to school for about another month. And if u want to have some one to talk to just e-mail me at pjsch@execpc.com and tell me where u live so maybe we can meet. oh and put for the subject for Paige.



chassidy coffey - February 7th, 2005 10:08 AM

i am 14 years old and pregnet with my second child. I dont care they its another dumb life. I know i am going to hate the thing. I hated my last stupid ugly baby. That is why I gave it up for adoption. This one I am going to do the same. I am a hooker not a mother.


Freaks - February 7th, 2005 10:33 AM

yeah you're really believable 'chassidy'


anonymous - February 8th, 2005 5:36 PM

to hIlary- for god sake Hilary shes 13 years old the same as me maybe shes so wound up in this she didnt think......if it had happened to you....would u remeber....he neva used a comdom....i'll get tested c if theres any of his DNA there


anonymous - February 8th, 2005 5:43 PM

Hi Kellyann- what Ever you do dont have an abortion...God has blessed you with a wonderful gift even if it was threw unwanted,hurful,painful...sex....Just tell your mom that she cant make you have an abortion......your boyfriend sounds lovely...keep hold of him darling.....if he wants to stick by you then let him he is only showing you how much he loves and cares for you



YATES - February 8th, 2005 6:25 PM

IF THE REAL DAD TURNS UP AND WANTS CONTACT U GOT 2 LET HIM B/C A CHILD NEEDS BOTH BILOGIC PARENTS


Julia - February 8th, 2005 6:55 PM

ohhh bulllll...........I was a single mom for 10 years and my son does GREAT his is honor roll at school and has played baseball for 7 years and been MVP for 4 years. I worked fulltime and took care of my son....and he has cystic fibrosis which is a terminal disability. So don't tell me you ahve to have 2 parents.


5 - February 9th, 2005 12:55 PM

people she is 13 ...raped....what part of this tells anyone who has been preg or trying to be preg. young or old is good. And i mean preg anyway (raped or not) she needs help emotionally and also needs to deal with the hard cold facts about all things in this decision. disease included. Listen to your mother there is a reason you have one and I hope she is doing something for your emotional well being. Have you reported this to anyone if you don't he will do it to someone else. Your b/f is sweet but you two are living in la la land if you think this is going to be easy. Continue school your education is your best tool in life. And you will get somewhere in life with more education and a strong will. Make this person pay for what he did. and i hope noone continues to give you the advice that you will be doing fine later at 14 and having no job , a screaming baby and wanting to go out. and also (lets hope not) no education. It isn't easy and I won't sugar coat it for you, you need to learn to make the toughest decision of your _young life. and I would never wish that on anyone, sit down and go over all your options with your mom and b/f . write down plusses and minuses (and i bet you have more minuses) and do it in an adult way. And the most important thing here is you, you are worthy of what ever decision you make and get help because you have been through something so tramatic that it might come back to you later in your life. either decision you make, you need to put yourself first. and feel good about you before you can raise a child. Take care


VEL - February 14th, 2005 7:45 AM

'Chassidy' why don't you fuck off with your stupid attempts at winding people up with silly lies. Grow up.


Beth - February 14th, 2005 2:42 PM

I think that you should do what you know is right. You should have the baby and be a terrific mother. Let your boyfriend be there for you and be a father to this child. His support will help a lot. Maybe some parenting classes would help.


a friend - February 14th, 2005 2:53 PM

Give it up for adoption, I'm SORRY your 13 and was raped!!! Why would you want to look at this little baby everyday and know what happend that day you were raped. I couldnt do it!!! If you can them more power for you and everything but girl you were raped and 13 YEARS OLD your a baby your self!!! Live your life not take care of one.


Tanya - February 14th, 2005 7:15 PM

I agree you should seriously consider adoption. I have looked at Cheryl's website. She is definitely a nice person. You might want to consider her.


priya - February 15th, 2005 12:27 PM

i had sex wid this lad and i dont' know if im pregnant and im realli scared


Hi - February 15th, 2005 12:39 PM

Chassidy put your name in question and we'll help.