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I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP

149 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 26th, 2008 4:33 PM
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Why? - March 5th, 2005 4:40 PM

Why hasn't Kelly Ann responded this entire time? Maybe because it's fake? If it's real then I say adoption or abort!


stephanie - March 5th, 2005 7:14 PM

hi, well i really think an ABORTION is the wrong way to go. Trust me you would be killing a baby that has not done anthimg wrong. I am 18 and 15weeks pregnant and i am so happy. Trust me if you have a guy in your life that wants to be there than you should really think about it. I know you are young but you are not the only one. you can go to youngmoms.com and there are alot of people that can help you and that you can go and talk to about every thing taht is going on. you can always email me if you have any questions or just need a friend.
babygirlshortie2003@yahoo.com


amanda - March 6th, 2005 10:08 AM

stay in school! education is the most important thing you will need! talk to your mom about the options.I personally would give the baby up for adoption i wouldnt bear to look at the child and see that it was the work on somthing bad.
in the end make your desion based on what you want!



Answer - March 14th, 2005 8:29 PM

Don't get an abortion sweetie. I know it seems like a good idea to solve this problem , but it is temporary relife. You will never for get the life you cut off. I understand you are young and your mom wants you to finsh growing up but that is wrong motherly advice. There are soo many dangers alone in the abortion process and after effects. Mentally, physically, spritually. Your boyfriend sounds great, but he is young too and i don't think its fair for him to give up his life for a baby who isn't his. Stay in school for as long as possible. You are a brave young women and God has a reason for everything so stay strong. I'll be praying for you.


amber - March 25th, 2005 9:34 PM

yes don't get a abortion


ok - March 25th, 2005 9:41 PM

whatever


sarah - March 26th, 2005 6:43 PM

HI my name is sarah
and I am 13 too
if you need someone to talk to my email is amberoselee@yahoo.com



Marie - March 26th, 2005 7:10 PM

First you should go get tested for any STD's. You said you don't know who this guy is that raped you, so you need to see a doctor and be tested ASAP. It is also not your mothers decision whether to keep the baby or not. Do not let your mom pressure you into doing something you really don't want to do. You will regret it later. Alot of women that have abortions say that they made a huge mistake, and mothers who keep their children say it's the best thing that has ever happened to them. Do what your heart tells you.


Maria Lopez - March 28th, 2005 1:32 PM

I think That u are really lucky to have a boy firend that is willing to stay with the baby even if it is not his I think that u should stay with your baby becuse it is not the babys fault and come u have ur boy friend and he loves u and also ur baby


merranda forrest - March 31st, 2005 6:18 PM

baby do what you feel is right email me and we can talk or you can call me at 1337-653-6463 i was in your same place and i kept mine please call me.


jack and al - April 14th, 2005 11:03 AM

okay...hard to believe, but shit happens....we're both sympathetic if its true..but..your b/f WILL leave you eventually...hes too young to be a dad..think about adoption. <3 good luck


ida - April 14th, 2005 2:10 PM

i think abortions are wrong and that it should not be llegal i think u should still go to school until it is time. then try to back to school as much as u ca. i know how u feel cuz i went through it and i tried hard to take care of my baby and it was a sucsses


jade - April 14th, 2005 9:53 PM

to Lauren:
Do U know what the morning after pill is ? Stupied
It is a misscarrige pill , it kills the baby!!!
Kellyann don't get a abortion, many woman and girls that have abortions
feel horribal
I am 13 too, if you need some one to talk to like a e-mail pen pal my adresses is
jadegirl1413@yahoo.com
Good luck and God Bless you and your baby


jade - April 14th, 2005 9:54 PM

To ida :
YOU GO GIRL :-)


kristy - April 15th, 2005 3:11 PM

your just a baby think things over with your mom


courtney - April 15th, 2005 3:21 PM

what is an abortion