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I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP

149 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 26th, 2008 4:33 PM
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courtney - April 15th, 2005 3:21 PM

what is an abortion


Yesica - April 19th, 2005 4:51 PM

i think u shouldn't get an abortion cause that is sad for thye baby just accept the proposal that guy gave you i know i would do that 10000000 time better than killing an inocant baby it is not his fault!!!!! so please do my advice its the best thing to do . if u abort u are going to regret it the rest of you LIFE!!!!!!


beatriz - April 20th, 2005 9:52 PM

im 15 with a 7week old lilttle boy who i love and i say stay in school i should of i regrear it



Elissa - April 21st, 2005 2:21 AM

Wow. Is this really how intelligent teenagers are now? I just checked out this site and find it very sad that not one of these responses seems to be in English. I think you should all stay in school and focus on your educations. ALL of you. Kellyan, you need to ignore all these wierdos' advice on this sight, take a deep breath, and make the biggest decision of your life. Listen to your heart, it will guide you through the pain. Peace.


sarah - April 22nd, 2005 9:20 AM

I think since you are only 13, you should not go through with the Pregnancy. After all you will be reminded of that guy whenever you look at your child. I am sure you will be able to take care of your baby, but wouldnt you rather have a child with someone you truely care about? I have had an abortion and a m/c. Neither one was easy for me. So i can understand where you are coming from. I really think you should sit down by yourself and write the pros and cons down about having this baby. Does your b/f know you were raped? I think you should let him know if you havent already. I definitly think you should continue school. You have the rest of your life to have children. Children should be conceived in love, not how yours was. Also, imagine when your child says "mommy whos my real daddy?" what are you going to say? It is a really tough choice. Sit down and think it out. But, above all, let it be your decision, not someone elses.


kellyann - April 22nd, 2005 9:21 AM

I think since you are only 13, you should not go through with the Pregnancy. After all you will be reminded of that guy whenever you look at your child. I am sure you will be able to take care of your baby, but wouldnt you rather have a child with someone you truely care about? I have had an abortion and a m/c. Neither one was easy for me. So i can understand where you are coming from. I really think you should sit down by yourself and write the pros and cons down about having this baby. Does your b/f know you were raped? I think you should let him know if you havent already. I definitly think you should continue school. You have the rest of your life to have children. Children should be conceived in love, not how yours was. Also, imagine when your child says "mommy whos my real daddy?" what are you going to say? It is a really tough choice. Sit down and think it out. But, above all, let it be your decision, not someone elses.


Jessica - April 23rd, 2005 12:02 PM

Hey ma! I was raped and I ended up pregnant but you know ma I had an abortion. But if your man is willing to help you than keep it. They have parenting schools I don't know where your at but if you email me back and tell me where your at I will help find the best school. I'm 19 I have a daughter 9 months and my babyfather is an asshole he don't want shit to do with his kid but you know what i've done it for nine months bymyself I don't need him I'm going to court so he can sign over all rights to me. Baby just to let you know it's VERY, VERY hard just think twice for me please and just pray to god I will pray fot you tonight. And that asshole I hope he go to hell. I care for you and I don't even know you but I know how it is ma.ok
holla back at me please.or call me my # is 203-560-0829



Sydney - April 23rd, 2005 5:07 PM

When you get an abortion all you feel is empty inside, they are nasty things. If you dont want to keep the baby, then have you considered giving it up for adoption?, there are so many people out there who cant have kids that would love to adopt you baby even b4 it is born, good luck, you have a hard road ahead of you.


Nicolette - June 14th, 2005 7:06 PM

That was horrible what happened to you. Your decision to have the baby takes great courage. I think that you should accept all the support you can get. I also think that you should keep going to school for yourself. It will keep you sane and somewhat in control of your future. Just keep in mind that everything happens for a reason. You have shown that you are a strong girl, so keep believing in yourself.


THIS IS FAKE - September 10th, 2005 2:41 PM

WHERE THE HELL IS KELLYANN??? ITS LIKE FINDING WALDO!


nicole - September 10th, 2005 4:12 PM

hey, im sorry about what happened to you, but im sorry to say but in some states since your a minor your parents really have the say in what you do, because of your age. Ya i know it sucks. BUT if she doesnt persue you getting an abortion and she lets you choose your own path, and you have this baby more power to you. Just remember its gunna be hard. Im 18 and im due 9/23 and im still in school, but you have to make sure you have someone to take care of that baby when your in school. An please make sure your BF is always goin to be there for you.


Peter - September 11th, 2005 4:44 PM

Well, you are 13 and though you may physically be ready to have a child, you are mentally not. I mean I wouldn't attempt to raise a kid before you can even legally drive. A boy that is under the age of 15, well he's too young to be a Father. Go to school, just contact an adoption agency and work it out.


Robert - December 3rd, 2005 6:24 PM

I am truly sorry that sexual relations were forced upon you. Have you contacted the authorities? If you havent, do so immediately. Rape is a federal crime and perpatrators and violators will be prosecuted law. Do not drop out of school, contact you the nearist support groups and councilors. Good luck.


um - December 3rd, 2005 6:53 PM

Has anyone noticed lately that this thread was started a YEAR ago?


kay - December 9th, 2005 5:24 PM

get the abortion your far to young to handle this tek my advice jus get the abortion it must hav been very scary to be raped but as for your bf tell him straight NO ur 13 ok not 25 so unless you want a life of endless name calling in the street an changeing nappies GET THE ABORTION!


Rikki - December 9th, 2005 5:53 PM

Honey I know what your going through I had the same thing happen to me at the same age and I had a abortion and I regrate it with every bit of me and now I might be pregnent with my second baby and I am really happy I get a second chance at being a mom but DO NOT GET A ABORTION YOU WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOUR SELF put your baby up for adoption if necessary but don't have a abortion.