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I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP

149 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 26th, 2008 4:33 PM
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Rikki - December 9th, 2005 5:53 PM

Honey I know what your going through I had the same thing happen to me at the same age and I had a abortion and I regrate it with every bit of me and now I might be pregnent with my second baby and I am really happy I get a second chance at being a mom but DO NOT GET A ABORTION YOU WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOUR SELF put your baby up for adoption if necessary but don't have a abortion.


Amy - December 11th, 2005 10:24 PM

no many men wanna be dads at the age 13 i think that maybe you should consider apotion or have the baby and see how it goes if you cant make it then look into adoption


to Amy - December 12th, 2005 2:06 AM

sorry I saw a little humour and I don't mean to offset the seriousness of Kellyanns question in your misspelling but a potion might not work unless it's a magical one. .



Jbear - December 12th, 2005 2:37 AM

This thread is a year old...she's already had a baby or an abortion by now...save your advice for the ones who need it now


asdf - December 12th, 2005 12:18 PM

If this is indeed a true story, then you should consider open adoption. You've no means of financially taking care of a child right now, and it's definitely not fair to have mommy and daddy take care of it for you. With open adoption you could at least keep in touch with the adoptive family and still see the child. Whatever you do, do not quit school. If you do that you're setting yourself up for failure.


Elaine - December 18th, 2005 9:18 PM

Hey sweety, ok first of all I'am very sorry about what you are going through. Since your mother seemed so understanding and she knows about it, i strongly reccomend you keep the baby. If your bf actully wants to help you raise the baby then what are you scared of. Even if your bf doesnt stick to what he said and leaves you, that means that special someone is still out there. If you dont want to have the baby because your scared of the pain. Let me just tell you abortian hurts more, plus abortian can cause serious health problems. I understand exactly what your going through because well i was in the same situation as you but i decided to keep my baby and after many hard work, I have the most beautiful 6 year old baby girl, her name is Tatiana. I can't even imagine my life without her. I did not have any one help me when i was in need, but at least you have you mother. Hopefully she will accept your decision and will help you out by watching her while you go to school. If not, do what i did, I dropped out of school, got a part time job and asked some friends and family to watch her for me, then now since shes a little grown up, i went back to school and am hopping to be a pharmacist...good luck..even though it tough..there was a reason for all this..much love to you sweetie..much love!! PLease write back with your decision!!!


AGES AGO - December 19th, 2005 3:16 AM

SHE WOULD HAVE HAD THE BABY BY NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Jamie - December 19th, 2005 10:43 AM

I hope you got the cops involved in this because rape is a serious offence.Yes you should keep going to school,you would really regret not going because now you need a high school diploma for certain jobs.Just do the best you can to go to school and if you really don't feel like going that day,I think your teachers would understand.


Snarky Anne - December 21st, 2005 2:00 AM

Most rape victims I know of would sooner tear out their own hearts than have the child of a rapist. In fact, I have a difficult time believing this thread.

You're thirteen. That isn't old enough to be a mother. You have no clue what it takes to support a child. If you won't get an abortion, give the child up for adoption.


LEYDIS - December 22nd, 2005 3:40 PM

HEY LLOK FIRST OFF ALL DONT KILL THE BABY IF YOUR BOYFRIEND IS GOING TO BE THERE FOR YOU AND YOU ARE SUE OF THAT THEN GO WITH HIM AND ACCEPT HIS HELP KEEP YOUR MOTHER IN MIND TOO TALK TO HER ABOUT YOUR PLANS im14 AND IM 6 WEEKS PREGNANT DONT BE SCARED FIGHT FOR YOUR DREAMS AND PLEASE DONT KILL YOUR BABY IT WAS NOT HIS FAULT WISH YOU GOOD LUCK MY EMAIL IS (LEYDIS14@YAHOO.COM) TAKE CARE HOPE TO HEAR FROM U SOON


Shyan - December 22nd, 2005 3:54 PM

Maybe


Shorty06 - December 30th, 2005 9:04 AM

hey i know abortions really s***, but there are limits, gurl you need to sit down and think hard and long, eve talk to your mum or even your boyfriend about this, tell him ur preggers and tell him its not his tell him u were raped!!! i dont want to be mean and tell you to get rid of it, but do u really want to keep a kid that isnt ur boyfriends, and u recived this gift in a wrong way??? i know every child is a gift, i myself at the moment am HOPING and even PRAYING that i fall pregant with my boyfriend, but serious gurl you need to talk to someone who knows right from wrong, being raped and falling pregant that way will hurt you in the future, but it is your choice, personally i would think hard and long before i decided to keep it, but i do know something would make me keep it,

good luck hon, x0x0x keep me up to date what happened?


samantha - December 30th, 2005 11:46 PM

Kellyann, hey Im am 15 and pregant in fact im due in April, now I wasn't raped or anything but I do know how the emotional it is and how emoutinal it was for me if you want you can email me at chances_babygurl16@yahoo.com


court - December 31st, 2005 12:45 AM

id be looking into adoption girlie. and um, std...your an ass.


Dust Philippines Rebel CITY - January 11th, 2006 11:10 PM

your really strong ! keep your child alive. you know you have done the right thing.
keep it up. dont give up soon it will all shine.

the guy who rape you will pay. trust the COPS trust COPS he will be punish by 2x
by the authorities and bythe heavens.

pray always. as i pray for you



Dust Philippines READ THIS GO - January 11th, 2006 11:43 PM

So close to hate
damn you satanic spawns stop confusing KellyAnn to abort her child.
life is precious .havent do you even know even animal struggle to survive.
youll regret those messages bring DEATH to her baby. as if you could just throw your life just like that. if your really
want to feel how to die inoccenly like you suggesting for her baby why dont you go to a terroriest or muslim rebel nfested places like the Phillppines or some other places on middle east. Want to know how it feels great to live and see the sun every second your eyes blink.

respect life