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I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP
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Honey I know what your going through I had the same thing happen to me at the same age and I had a abortion and I regrate it with every bit of me and now I might be pregnent with my second baby and I am really happy I get a second chance at being a mom but DO NOT GET A ABORTION YOU WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOUR SELF put your baby up for adoption if necessary but don't have a abortion. |
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no many men wanna be dads at the age 13 i think that maybe you should consider apotion or have the baby and see how it goes if you cant make it then look into adoption |
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sorry I saw a little humour and I don't mean to offset the seriousness of Kellyanns question in your misspelling but a potion might not work unless it's a magical one. . |
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This thread is a year old...she's already had a baby or an abortion by now...save your advice for the ones who need it now |
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If this is indeed a true story, then you should consider open adoption. You've no means of financially taking care of a child right now, and it's definitely not fair to have mommy and daddy take care of it for you. With open adoption you could at least keep in touch with the adoptive family and still see the child. Whatever you do, do not quit school. If you do that you're setting yourself up for failure. |
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Hey sweety, ok first of all I'am very sorry about what you are going through. Since your mother seemed so understanding and she knows about it, i strongly reccomend you keep the baby. If your bf actully wants to help you raise the baby then what are you scared of. Even if your bf doesnt stick to what he said and leaves you, that means that special someone is still out there. If you dont want to have the baby because your scared of the pain. Let me just tell you abortian hurts more, plus abortian can cause serious health problems. I understand exactly what your going through because well i was in the same situation as you but i decided to keep my baby and after many hard work, I have the most beautiful 6 year old baby girl, her name is Tatiana. I can't even imagine my life without her. I did not have any one help me when i was in need, but at least you have you mother. Hopefully she will accept your decision and will help you out by watching her while you go to school. If not, do what i did, I dropped out of school, got a part time job and asked some friends and family to watch her for me, then now since shes a little grown up, i went back to school and am hopping to be a pharmacist...good luck..even though it tough..there was a reason for all this..much love to you sweetie..much love!! PLease write back with your decision!!! |
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SHE WOULD HAVE HAD THE BABY BY NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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I hope you got the cops involved in this because rape is a serious offence.Yes you should keep going to school,you would really regret not going because now you need a high school diploma for certain jobs.Just do the best you can to go to school and if you really don't feel like going that day,I think your teachers would understand. |
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Most rape victims I know of would sooner tear out their own hearts than have the child of a rapist. In fact, I have a difficult time believing this thread. |
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HEY LLOK FIRST OFF ALL DONT KILL THE BABY IF YOUR BOYFRIEND IS GOING TO BE THERE FOR YOU AND YOU ARE SUE OF THAT THEN GO WITH HIM AND ACCEPT HIS HELP KEEP YOUR MOTHER IN MIND TOO TALK TO HER ABOUT YOUR PLANS im14 AND IM 6 WEEKS PREGNANT DONT BE SCARED FIGHT FOR YOUR DREAMS AND PLEASE DONT KILL YOUR BABY IT WAS NOT HIS FAULT WISH YOU GOOD LUCK MY EMAIL IS (LEYDIS14@YAHOO.COM) TAKE CARE HOPE TO HEAR FROM U SOON |
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hey i know abortions really s***, but there are limits, gurl you need to sit down and think hard and long, eve talk to your mum or even your boyfriend about this, tell him ur preggers and tell him its not his tell him u were raped!!! i dont want to be mean and tell you to get rid of it, but do u really want to keep a kid that isnt ur boyfriends, and u recived this gift in a wrong way??? i know every child is a gift, i myself at the moment am HOPING and even PRAYING that i fall pregant with my boyfriend, but serious gurl you need to talk to someone who knows right from wrong, being raped and falling pregant that way will hurt you in the future, but it is your choice, personally i would think hard and long before i decided to keep it, but i do know something would make me keep it, |
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Kellyann, hey Im am 15 and pregant in fact im due in April, now I wasn't raped or anything but I do know how the emotional it is and how emoutinal it was for me if you want you can email me at chances_babygurl16@yahoo.com |
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id be looking into adoption girlie. and um, std...your an ass. |
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your really strong ! keep your child alive. you know you have done the right thing. |
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So close to hate |
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