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Is IT Possible...........

5 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 30th, 2005 7:20 AM
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M - December 29th, 2005 9:36 AM
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my boyfriend and i had sex... and the condom broke, but it had spermacide, and he didnt precum, it broke at the top... SOOO i shouldnt worry about getting pregnant...
BUT then we went at it again, and the 2nd one broke because we got wayy to rough and what not. The 2nd one didnt have spermacide, but we caught it right as it broke..

Should i worry about getting pregnant??


Jbear - December 29th, 2005 10:19 AM

It's pretty hard to guess from what you've said. Did he actually cum the second time? How long ago did it happen? If it was within five days, you can get emergency contraception (plan b) from planned parenthood or your local health department. If your condoms keep breaking, either there's something wrong with the condoms or you're not using them right. Don't keep them in a wallet. They have an expiration date...make sure they're not past it. If your fingernails are too long, you can damage the condom. You need to leave some space at the tip. Squeeze the air out of the space, then roll the condom completely over his penis. When he pulls out of you, he needs to hold the condom by the rim, to keep it from falling off inside of you. If you're doing everything right and they're still breaking, try a different brand. If your boyfriend is really large, that could be why the condoms are breaking. I've noticed that Trojans are usually larger than Durex.


M - December 29th, 2005 10:36 AM

well he never came inside me, not the 1st or the 2nd, we finished off after with me giving him a hand job... because i was afraid that it would happen again. Yea we use only trojan now, and those work really good. Im worried because weve both noticed that my look slight bigger, but they arnt tender.. and im getting cramps, so im hoping my period will come... but idk.. all his grown up friends said that my chance of getting pregnant are veryyyyyyyyy slim. =/ but i need some 2nd opinions


............ - December 29th, 2005 12:16 PM

Slim, but possible. You're just going to have to take a test.



Jbear - December 29th, 2005 12:41 PM

It doesn't sound like you will get pregnant. Try not to stress out about it, and wait until your period is a couple of days late (if it's late at all) before you test. Also, if you're worried about condoms breaking in the future, you can get spermicide inserts to use in addition to the condoms. Don't use the spermicide alone, but it's a good backup. I've used some before called VCF. They're in the same section of the store as condoms. It's a little clear square of film that you fold and insert as high as you can 30 minutes before sex. The film dissolves into a layer of spermicide covering your cervix.


M - December 30th, 2005 7:20 AM

hmm that makes sense, thanks for advice, ill come back if i need some more advice =)