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OMG !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

11 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 10th, 2006 11:02 PM
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Sama14 - December 9th, 2006 4:39 PM
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OG I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOO GLAD I HAVE JUST FOUND THIS FORUM. I HAVE JUST FOUND OUT I AM PREGNANT !!!!!!!! I AM ONLY 14 OMG MY MUM IS GONNA KILL ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO I CANT TELL MY MUM AND DAD THEY ARE GONNA GO MAD AT ME I AM SO SCARED THE DAD THINKS I SHOULD HAVE AN ABORTION I DONT WHAT TO DO I AM REALLY SCARED HELP ME PLEASE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


sxcymuma2007 - December 9th, 2006 4:45 PM

hun seriously you have to calm down and think about this you are scared and that is understandable. how far gone are you ?. you really need to talk to yur mum or someone and go and see a doctor to make sure you and the baby are ok. yu have 3 options Abortion, Adoption, Keeping the baby. wchich ever you decide you need to 100% sure that it is what you want. which ever you choose its going to be hard and you will need a lot of support good luck


Sama14 - December 9th, 2006 4:54 PM

i am roughly about 10 weeks i hve thought i was pregnant for ages but i have been to scared to take a test


Sama14 - December 9th, 2006 4:54 PM

i am sort of happy but scared about it



KayKaylala - December 9th, 2006 8:40 PM

is this like a Uk site? becuz it seems like everyone on here is british?


Blackeye - December 10th, 2006 6:34 AM

Tell your mum!!!
You are to young to have a baby alone. You think your mum will be mad at you but she gave birth to you,she rased you for 14 years. She will freek out at first but she knows that her baby girl needs her right now to help and support her. Listen to her and let her give you advise. Your dad will get mad at your boyfriend but he will support you for life whatever you do. You are still their little girl taking her first step. But if you tell them they will know you are telling them early and dont know what to do. You have to show them that you trust them on this case. They need to feel that you still tell them everything. You will understand why your mother freeks out when you give birth. I dont think any mum wants her little girl to go through that so early. Just talk to your mother and father and really listen to what they say.


tyler0323 - December 10th, 2006 11:56 AM

as upset as your mom and dad may get when you tell them, they will calm down and then the support will be there for you to help you decide on what to do. If abortion is your route, you had better hurry up since you are running out of time on that, the baby has the heart beating and is moving around now even though you cant feel it. How old is the dad to be? Tell your mom or dad or both and go from there, you shouldnt be alone on this right now. gl


Sama14 - December 10th, 2006 1:34 PM

i am actually irish. i just searched into google teen pregnancy forum and this site came up. i told my mum i gave her letter saying that i am pregnant and she went mad but after a couple she came up to room and said that she understands that mistakes happen and she isnt happy that i am going to be a mum so young but she will support me what ever i choose to do. the dad is 27 he is a caretaker at my school.



Sama14 - December 10th, 2006 1:35 PM

though i havent told my mum about the dad if i did she would kill him literally


mammy16 - December 10th, 2006 1:44 PM

wow, a caretaker at your school? he really stepped out of place there didnt he. you should tell your mam who the dad is because she is going to find out sooner or later and he needs to take responsability for his actions. my babies dad is 26 and im 16 so i kind of know how u will be scared of your parents reactions towards that age gap


Angelita - December 10th, 2006 9:35 PM

wow.. just relax and don't worry too much... how many months or weeks are you anyway? if you're close with your parents they would try and understand..well they would be very disappointed, and may yell at you and say words that they don't mean.. it's expected, but in the end.. if their love and understanding was very strong for you.. they would sit you down and talk about what you want to do and what is best for you...


LiL_bAbY_mAmA - December 10th, 2006 11:02 PM

ok so i was in the same postion...and i mean exact same... im 14 and i was so scared my mom was going to kick me out but she didnt... me and her are closter than ever... and im just a couple weeks farther along than you are... but seriously u need to talk to ur mom... its best to tell her first cuz she knows what your going trough... and yah... hit me up on aol if u need any thing its babyangel59102