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Pregnant At 13

7 posts on this thread and the last post was on November 7th, 2009 6:34 PM
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MiataJones - October 28th, 2009 10:59 AM
[Original Post]

I\'m stressed and worried. If any other teens have some advice please do share.


carsonsmommy2b - October 28th, 2009 3:18 PM

Hello;
Well first off CONGRATS! Even though you are young you can make it. Their are 3 ways you can go- Abortion, Adoption, or keep the child. If you need any help or someone to talk to, you can text me ( if you'd like i don't get on here that often), because i know how you feel, i am only 17 and pregnant, but i have had friends whom have been in your postion, and having a Neutral Opinon will help.

Please Let me know something.
Thanks.


MiataJones - October 28th, 2009 3:23 PM

um thanks I really do need help. I'm really scared. My bf is still with me but we havent told anyone


Grandpa Viv - October 28th, 2009 4:49 PM

Are you sure? Have you done a positive home preg test? The standard advice for someone in this position is to get adult help from someone - school nurse, counselor, favorite aunt, or even your parents. There really is no point in putting off the ultimate showdown, and they may be more understanding than you imagine. GL!



Advice Girl - October 29th, 2009 9:35 AM

Honey's,
I would honestly tell your parents or someone right away. the longer you wait the harder it's going to get. don't worry about how upset they are going to get because every parent knows that their kids are going to get sexually active at some point in time. granted they don't want that point to be now but if you tell them right away they will respect your decision to keep the child, adoption or abortion. in my decision i would keep the child. i don't believe in abortion or adoption. i would adopt a child but not give up my own baby for adoption. i can understand if you have no choice and that i respect. i just want to say it would be wiser to tell your parents right away. yes you will loose some of their trust but in the long run they will love you anyway.

love
Advice Girl


babyboy2010 - November 4th, 2009 2:32 PM

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babyboy2010 - November 4th, 2009 2:34 PM

sorry for my first post. i cant see what im typing on here for some reason.... but currently im pregnant and im 15.... my boyfriend and i are kinda together but not.... butwe arent see ing other people... its really hard on me but i have people to back me up. so if u need someone to back u up then let me know. and once again sorry iff anything is spelled wrong i cant see anything but gray on the comment box lol


Floricica - November 7th, 2009 6:34 PM

Strong advice is to tell parents as soon as possible. You need their advice. Also, I know if my child got into a situation like that, I would help my child with it. I would not disown my child. Yes it would be shalking, but honestly? You have nothing to loose.