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Should I Tell My Bf?

6 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 31st, 2005 11:40 AM
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Ashamed - December 29th, 2005 2:34 AM
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Well at the start when me and my bf started having sex he asked if i was on b/c and i said yes but thats cuz we were in the middle of sex at the time, not a good time to ask that. Well we have sex like 5 times everyday or so and its never protected. I told him last week that i ran out of b/c and can't afford more. Should i have told him the truth at the start? Should i tell him that i lied? the only problem is, he told me he don't like being lied to. i am so worried?


Jbear - December 29th, 2005 2:50 AM

He's still having sex with you, without birth control. If he had stopped when you told him you didn't have any more birth control, you'd be obligated to tell him the truth. By the way, 85% of couples who have unprotected sex get pregnant within a year...not very good odds...protect yourself


RachelJane - December 29th, 2005 3:05 AM

Thanks Jbear for ur help. I really am gonna get protection whichever way i can. and i am gonna put an end to unprotected sex between me and him no matter how bad i am in the mood.


Jbear - December 29th, 2005 3:32 AM

Good for you! If you don't have any protection and you're both in the mood, you can do other stuff, oral, mutual masterbation, etc...Some of the best times I've ever had with my husband were times we didn't have any protection and so we had to be creative...I guess I preach a bit about the birth control, but I had sex once last December without any birth control (my husband and I were both drunk, how mature!) and now I have a beautiful four-month old suprise addition to the family.



RachelJane - December 29th, 2005 3:34 AM

I know how that is when ur drunk i have been in those situations. but atleast you are married. Well congrats on the 4month old. Must be a blessing!


hmm - December 31st, 2005 11:19 AM

I got pregnant one month after my husband and I stopped using birth control. You're really playing with fire here. And yes, you should have told him the truth at the very start.


play it slick - December 31st, 2005 11:40 AM

honestly, see if u are pregnant first, dont tell him u are taking any tests, if u are not pregnant, then just let it go and stick with the i cant afford it. if you are... b/c can fail and i no thsi first hand...
if my answer seems more shameful to go behind his back, dont worry, i am a guy, and to be honest
i would rather no for 100% fact the day u told me u were pregnant(thats if u are), my g/f told me she thought she was a week after her missed period and for the next month until i new for 100% i was freaking out