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34 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 13th, 2005 10:32 AM

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**amber** - February 2nd, 2005 11:15 PM

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hye everyone ,im 16 and i am 23 weeks pregnant.. i found out when i was with my boyfriend, i was scared to tell my mom i was worried what she would think but finally i got the courage to tell her .. she wasnt happy but she loved me and knew i needed help that i couldnt do it alone ! i was so confused i loved my boyfriend but i was a varsity cheerleader ,a junior in high school,i was terrified ..i didnt know what to do ,i went to the docter and i heard the heartbeat and saw an ultrasound i couldnt believe it there was a tiny living baby in my stomach moving around in there i was smiling and this feeling came over me i started crying with joy it was the best moment in my life ,the happiest id ever been, it was better than parties on the weekend , getting drunk,and riding around the town on friday nights, it was so much better than that the best feeling iv ever felt its like my heart exploded i already feel in love with the little baby... know i have 3 months left in my pregnany and showing very much LOL but then theres these older women they look at me like im trash or they despite me ...it really hurts me so bad inside sometimes i cry in the midlle of walmart..or i see all my old friends from high school and there laughing at me ! but honestly by the end of the day a part of me is still glowing inside the part of me that knows im going to be a mommy, and thats all im worried about im not worried about the parties ,or the people, life is short and i have the rest of my life to spend with my son who i will love more than anybody and he will love me to ! no matter the mistakes i made and thats all i could ask for at the end of the day ( cant wait) till he gets here ! and then no one else will matter... so all you teen mothers dont listen to all these other people follow your hearts and dont let people judge the only one that can judge you and it really matters is god and he forgives all his children ! no matter the mistake and he loves you no matter what ! for all eternity>>>>

Andi - February 2nd, 2005 11:20 PM

Congrats to you on your pregnancy! Just try to live life to the fullest everyday. My friend was 5 months pregnant when she walked across the stage at our high school graduation, and there was definatley some things said about her, but you can always tell your true friends when they are the ones sitting on the side lines cheering for you. Keep your chin up! I am sure you will be a wonderful mother!

amber - February 2nd, 2005 11:32 PM

thank you ! im so glad somone has somthing nice to say to me ! thank you so much !

Sally - February 3rd, 2005 12:36 AM

You are awesome girl !!!!!!!!! I am so happy to hear that you are doing so great!!!!!!!!!!

kayleigh - February 3rd, 2005 5:51 AM

gudluck on ur pregnancy and baby im 16 and 36 weeks pregnant and i cnt wait now i want to c her and c wat she looks like. im still in college im leaving in a weeks time but then im goin bk to finish the corse im doin im trying to make the most of wat i have and getting very soon gud luck to all u young mums out there as well.

kay - February 3rd, 2005 5:52 AM

kay - February 3rd, 2005 5:53 AM

sorry didnt mean to post twice

hehe - February 3rd, 2005 5:26 PM

Congratulations hun!! i wish the best of luck to you and your baby! Dont let ne one bring you down! A smile is much prettier than a frown! =)

amber - February 3rd, 2005 9:37 PM

thank you ,,

Mizzy17 - February 4th, 2005 2:18 PM

I think it dosent matter what people say....People tell me that I shouldnt be with the i am with now...But i say fuck them in my haed even its my bestfriend...

Stephanie - February 8th, 2005 2:34 PM

Thank you amber for putting up your story! im 16 also and im pretty sure im pregnant! theres no way i would get an abortion. and now after reading what you wrote im happy that i might be pregnant thank you so much for helping me lookon the bright side and sharing all your joy about being a teen mom!

Kayleigh-Jayne - February 8th, 2005 4:09 PM

im glad you have a positive out look on life... im sure you'll make a great mommy with your attitude and that youre mom is going 2 support you... remember all you young moms dont let anybody treat you like your below them hold your head up high and dont lower yourself to their standards!....i wish you the very best of luck, and hope you have one beautiful baby!

kelly - February 15th, 2005 7:10 PM

congrats!! don't let everyones opinion of who you are affect you. I was a teen mom i didn't get pregnant till i was 19 but people had and still have opinions of who i am because of that and because my daughter is now 2 and a half and i'm pregnant for the 2ND time you dont have to be 30 and married to be a good mother all you have to do is have unconditional love and understanding and a little patience at first it will be hard but it gets better trust me plus it's so rewarding to be a mother. if you ever want to talk or have any questions e-mail me queen_jarvis_69@hotmail.com

Traci - February 15th, 2005 8:44 PM

Amber I just wanted to tell you half of those "friends" that are laughing could end up in the same place and my friends that ditched me in highschool when I got pregnant well they still live at home with thier parents most of them not ini college and have dead end jobs. Me on the other hand I have a beautiful 2 year old girl and I'm almost done with me BS is medical office bussiness administration. They still hang out and party with 16 year olds. So the funny thing is I'm the one laughing I'm the one that ended up with a life my daughter hasn't made my life bad only enriched it by a enormous degree. GOOD LUCK KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! you have a great and awsome outlook on life right now don't ever loose that

Amber - April 21st, 2005 10:51 AM

Your very strong. Im 16 and 17 weeks pregnant and it is the greatest feeling ever. I wouldnt trade it for the world. I find out wether my baby is a boy or girl May 12 2005 but just to let you know your story made me cry and i look up to you and i dont know you. your very strong and i pray you and your little boy have the best life ever

Audrey - April 21st, 2005 12:35 PM

It's such a shame that so many people think that a young woman is trash if she is under 20 and pregnant. People forget that such things were expected not all that long ago. My grandmother was married and had a child by the time she was 17. So it's not up to everyone else to judge who you are.

That is so beautiful - April 21st, 2005 12:45 PM

That's is the most beautiful thing anybody has ever written on this site. It came straight from the heart.... bravo :)

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