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10 posts on this thread and the last post was on May 30th, 2007 11:52 AM
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hc0999 - May 5th, 2007 5:37 PM
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I recently just found out i was pregnant, im only about 1 month into it, and dont know when to break it to my mom, Anyone have advice?!?!


Grandpa Viv - May 5th, 2007 5:46 PM

In the long run your mom will appreciate knowing now rather than later. You will feel better once you have it off your chest. This will be a family project. It's only fair mom be in from the beginning. Help clean up after breakfast in the morning, then say "Sit down a minute, Mom, we have to talk". Make sure you use the word 'grandbaby' several times during the intial convo. Good luck!


ChattyKathy - May 5th, 2007 7:41 PM

Well, mothers day is coming up. Perhaps you can buy her a "grandmothers day" present to introduce the topic. Sit down, try to relax (your mother will probably be a bit upset) and think of the questions your mother is most likely going to ask you. It helps to be prepared for the conversation.


mommi2b826 - May 6th, 2007 1:07 AM

you should tell your mom now. I told my mom right when i found out and she surprised me by being very helpful, of course she was upset but she didn't start yelling at me right away. i agree with kathy do something nice & then sit down & say it. Good luck...hope it goes well



JuicyLovesHim - May 24th, 2007 6:26 AM

hey me too im super scared to tell her


billsgirl - May 24th, 2007 8:51 AM

well from personal experience- i was 16 ( now 28) and i went to the dr to conferm. so that night when my mm came home i took her in my room and said " mom, i gotta tell you something" she goes" you re pregnant". very mattter of factly. i just nodded my head. the next thing she says is " you dumb-ass" so i started to cry. we we quiet for a few minutes. then after the initial shock was gone she said to me. well i guess its already dont so what can i do ground you? so then she lightened up and so jokingly- i guess that means i gotta cook dinner everynight now. she actually took it really well and 11 and a half years later neither one of us would change a thinkg. now 28 i want my second and i told her that it is weird being able to tell her- mom im trying, lol- so good luck to you- remember- it will be shocking to her at first, but just rememmber once you baby is here everyones heart will melt!


billsgirl - May 24th, 2007 8:52 AM

i just realized tht this is pretty old- hco999 did you tell her yet?


babybradley - May 29th, 2007 9:15 AM

Personally I was 6 months pregnant when I told my mom.. I waited to long. I should have told her eairlier but with the fear of dissapointing her. I waited. Hmm Once the inital shock wore off she was ok, we still had our moments but now im married and she LOVES my son like he is her own!!!!!!!! (son that is) good luck and Have you told her yet???



andSheLoves - May 29th, 2007 8:52 PM

I told my mom in a letter. My sons 2 months and shes STILL mad at me.


kendra1988 - May 30th, 2007 7:37 AM

hc0999 did you tell your mother or juicyloveshim have you told yours if so tell eachother how mayeb that will help you break it to yours or what not. myne was simple my mom MADE me go to the CLINIC to get test when they told me yep in fact thats a BIG FAT POSTIVE. nothing changed that. <3


boojygirl - May 30th, 2007 11:52 AM

i think u should tell her but then express how willing u r to help finacially and that u'll try to b as responsible as possible...i also feel u should tell her u made a mistake but u r willing to try make the situation the best...hopefullt this works for u...good luck