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Tell him there is no way in hell! Protection fails... a lot! Half of the babies born in the United states were unplanned, you think half the people have never heard of protection? Condom babies, pill babies, IUD babies, vasectomy babies, tubes tied babies! They happen all the time. There is no such thing as 100% effective birth control, unless you count not having sex or engaging in any penis-vagina contact.

yeah. i know.. im more wondering why he would want to have unprotected sex & do that in the first place if he knows the consequences. I've already told him im never getting an abortion.. like does he want a baby?

No he doesn't want a baby. It's just what guys like. I think it's an instinct for them to want to ejaculate inside a woman. Way back before we were civilized, men would ejaculate inside the woman, then leave the woman. Then her pregnancy hormones would make her skin clearer, and her boobs bigger, to attract another male to help her care for her baby. That's why some men are attracted to pregnant women. Your guy just wants to get his rocks off and doesn't want to deal with the consequences of it.

Sorry to add on to you Amanda, but there's also kind of a territorial "marking their territory" like a dog peeing on a fire hydrant thing about guys wanting to cum inside of you. I hate to sound preachy but sex is for procreation so the best instincts in both of you is to want to end your union of bodies with him ejaculating inside of you-this becomes the oneness of you guys through a baby. So it is the nature part of him yearning to do this and that part is crying to make a baby, but it has nothing to do with him consciously-it just has to do with his need to spread his seed-remember, it has nothing to do with love. The working brain knows he doesn't want to have kids-so don't even put yourself in the position because he's making his intentions clear. He wants to have sex with you but he's not ready for a baby and not ready to have to be tied to you for the rest of his life.