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31 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 10th, 2006 2:21 PM
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autumn85 - May 18th, 2006 12:32 PM

well i have been getting these weird dizzy spells and like a pulling in my lower abdomen... i have been feeling like af is coming but it just hasnt happened. also i have been eating more than usual


collint3 - May 18th, 2006 1:01 PM

I believe that every young parent goes through this. I am 18 and will be 19 in july and due in august.
My parents were so upset and dissapointed because they wanted more for me, but this is what my fiance and i wanted. But now they are all excited and can't wait for her to get here.
Good Luck


Ddvinson3 - May 18th, 2006 2:39 PM

Well yes autumn you can still be preggo! I would def go to the doc and see if they will do a blood test. Ecspecially if you took one and it came out postive. I took a bunch before it actually came out positive. And when it did boy was it right away and dark! So maybe it's just to early to tell. I was 6 weeks when I found out and had taken them before and they were neg I guess the hormones just weren't strong enough yet. But a blood test can detect early so that is the best bet! Good luck!



autumn85 - May 18th, 2006 4:04 PM

thanks...well i called my doctor and can't get in for a couple weeks! can you believe it? by then i would hope i either get a bfp or af comes! hopefully af won't be showing!


Ddvinson3 - May 18th, 2006 4:30 PM

Well goodluck!!!


Cassie06 - May 18th, 2006 5:04 PM

hi! I am 19 and 28 weeks pregnant. I have been married for a year May 28th and I still felt uneasy about telling my parents! lol. They married at 18 and had me by 20, and my mom always told me she didnt mind me getting married young but she didnt want me to get pregnant until I finished college. I told her and my dad and they werent really thrilled at first because they didnt think we were financially stable yet or had a plan. Once I explained to them I was going to finish college, how we were going to make everything work, etc. they were more comfortable with it. Now they are thrilled to be grandparents (even though mom is whining because she is just about to turn 40 and says she is way to young to be a grandma!! lol)


Cassie06 - May 18th, 2006 5:07 PM

Also, I would wait a few days and test again and use a digital. When I was testing I was nervous enough as it is without having to try to read the stupid test! It was great to just look at the stick and it say "pregnant". And I LOVE cheerleading!!! I cheered in high school, and in my first year of college!! So much fun and hard work and such a great work out!! :)



autumn85 - May 18th, 2006 6:10 PM

yea it is a lot of fun... ok before anyone found out they were pregnant did you cry for no reason? because i just had like a 10 minute cry for absolutely no reason at all! my bf was like omg is something wrong and i couldnt give an answer because nothing was!


Jamie-Lee - May 18th, 2006 7:44 PM

I'll be 20 on Sept 24th.I was so scared to tell my Mom.I told her over the phone at my Grandparent's house 4 houses down the road.The next thing I know she's at my Gradnparent's.I thought "Oh no,I'm in for it now" but instead the first thing she did was give me a big hug and we both cried.She's accepting it.My parents are divorced.Mom told Dad for me because she knew it would be really hard for me.He knew something was up by the tone of Mom's voice and he guessed it.He was a bit like "Oh no.." at first..now he wears his "Grandpa's the name,spoiling's the game" shirt proudly.My boyfriend Rob didn't take it so easy..he's coming around though,every once in a while he'll mention how he's not ready and he never wanted kids in the first place.When we have arguements it's hard because we both work at the same place.He can't go 2 days without talking to me because he misses me so much.My parents love Rob and that helps.Since I got pregnant I've been one big mess of emotions.I'm going through a hard time now too though,My Grandpy on my Dad's side was only given a short time to live and they put Grammy in a seniors home without telling me.Let me know how things go.


Cassie06 - May 18th, 2006 8:54 PM

I was a little weepy before I got my positive, and have been a big cry baby ever since! lol. I never cried very much before, I was never emotional, and when I was pms'ing, I was just mean, never weepy. I bawled for 10 minutes after at my dr appt today because I was tired and wanted to go home and take a nap! It drives me crazy!! (But does get things accomplished, I think people are scared of pg hormonal women!! lol)


autumn85 - May 19th, 2006 12:01 PM

ok so i thought af was coming this morning because i kept feeling like a drip or something. but i could swear it was her! i have been having the same feeling all morning so i keep running to the bathroom...but she still isnt here and now i am 13 days late!


jessicajo - June 5th, 2006 10:33 PM

I got pregnant at 19 i am now 20 and 20 weeks i was also in college which i completed but cannot find job in that field pregnant my boyfriend who is 30 did not want me to tell my mom i gave her hints she was just like it is wrong timing but she is happy and me and daddy have been together 2 and a half years.


quinnies_mommy - June 6th, 2006 5:55 PM

Hi Autumn. I fell pregnant with Quinn when I was 19. I am 20 now. THe waiting game sucks. I know how that goes. It is so nerve racking wondering if you are or arent. If you want to talk, my email is romanceismusic@yahoo.com Best of luck to you!


jamie-lynn1988 - June 7th, 2006 1:49 PM

when i had kaylie i was the same i was weepy and i couldn't even watch a comercial because everything would make me feel soo cry i guess that's y u are crying if soo u are preganant or not sometimes u cry when u are about 2 start u'r period i guess well wish u the best..jamie :o)


aimee1 - June 8th, 2006 6:39 AM

helo im 19 coming 20.just found out i was pregnant few days ago. absolutly scared to death to tell my mum and dad.but they turned out to be really happy for me.just do another test and go see your doctor if positive.your parents may surprise you. i have been with my partner for 5 years and everyone been great.hope everything is ok.x


wyckedli - June 10th, 2006 2:21 PM

I dont know if i should say this. BUt here it goes. My friend thought she was preg too..She missed her period for about two weeks. Took a pregnancy test and it kept coming out negative. Comes to find out she had an ovarian cyst. So if your af doesnt come and your still not getting a postive maybe you should get that checked. But another reason why you may not be getting a postive is that because you might have ovulated close to the time that you had your period.