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6 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 12th, 2005 6:54 PM

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Gaby - September 9th, 2005 7:29 PM

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Im 15, i have posted before saying that i need help to think right about wanting to get pregnant and i did change my mind...for a while cause today in school my friend told me that another one my friend, june, was pregnant and i dont know but for some reason i felt jealous like if i want to be the pregnant one and then i saw june with her boyfriend and they seemed so happy together, kissing and hugging. i have a boyfriend too which i have been with for 2 years and 5 months but we are in different schools, we have thought that i have been pregnant before but i wasnt.i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean im happy for her but then again im not, i want to have a baby inside of ME. for a while i did fell like no i dont want to have a baby at all but i have it in my head again. I know that my boyfriend doesnt want a baby right now and hes right i mean we are still in school and i cant work yet, hes 15 too and he does work,he has his own cell phone accesoruy store with his uncle but its still not enough. I just really want for teenage moms to tell me how it really is cause i dont want to feel like i want a baby. and i dont really care about not going out with my friends cause i dont do that alot.help me change my mind

Gaby - September 9th, 2005 7:38 PM

i even feel like crying cause im not the one who is having a baby with my boyfriend

Amber - September 9th, 2005 9:51 PM

I'm 15 and pregnant and for one thing its kinda scary to be this young and carrying a baby inside of you and for me its been kinda painful emotionally and physically but i wouldnt advise you to get pregnant at 15 because for one you cant get a job yet and by the time your 16 you will have a job and need time off to have your baby and most 16 year olds that are just starting to work only start out at minimum wage and thats not enough money to raise a baby on. Now dont get me wrong im really happy and excited to be having a baby but thats coming out of almost 3 to 4 months of being depressed and scared. And even though i think my baby is healthy it is still kinda hard not to wonder if anything is gonna go wrong but all you can really do is pray and God will help you through it! Just take it from me you dont wanna get pregnant right now! its not the best time.For you, your boyfriend, or a baby.

karine - September 10th, 2005 10:13 AM

Baby's cost alot. and your parents will be stuck paying for what you want, cause like you said you cant work and bring in money.
the baby will need insurance, clothing (they outgrow it very kickly) and the formula is also very costy. the diapers. i spend about 100$ of diapers every month with about 15$ wipes/month.

you really need to think anout it...just wait till you can get a job at 16...and your bf too....get some money..

to karine - September 10th, 2005 11:40 AM

Now, I see why your are being ripped off for child care. Stop giving advice, and start charging more for baby sitting. Even though now I am sure I wouldn't want you to baby sit for my kid.

up above - September 10th, 2005 6:22 PM

?? What kind of remark is that?? uhhhhhhh I think?

kljkl - September 12th, 2005 6:54 PM

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