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8 posts on this thread and the last post was on May 29th, 2007 10:00 AM
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espie1234 - May 28th, 2007 12:45 PM
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im 14 turnin 15 in 2 monthes. my boyfriend spent the night at my house and we did it 3 times in one night.
i was reading and it says i should take the pregnancy test after my due date for my period. but when we had sex i just got off my period. And i dont want to wait a month for a test. He didnt cum inside of me or anything so i should be safe right?


freebird - May 28th, 2007 12:57 PM

If you had unprotected sex there is always a possibility of pregnancy. It's less likely to happen at different times of the month but if you don't know when you ovulate there's no guarantee. You're just going to have to wait until you're due for your next period to be sure. There's no way around that. Use condoms next time.


espie1234 - May 28th, 2007 1:00 PM

oh sorry to mention. yea he did use a condom. but im not on birth control. and we both decided we have sex again i should b on the pill.


Grandpa Viv - May 28th, 2007 1:06 PM

Girl, you are taking chances. Pull-out sex is not a from of contraception. Sperm can live 5 days inside you, and the egg lets go day 14 of a 28 day cycle, but sometimes earlier. Ninety percent of teens not using proper birth control are pregnant inside a year. Are you ready to have a baby at your breast and pass up the rest of your teen years, your education, and your life's chances at a decent income? If this incident happened within the last 72 hours you could 'fess up to your mom and have her spend $30 on a morning-after pill to minimize the chance of pregnancy. If you are absolutely determined to continue this risky behavior, at least insist on a condom all the time every time, and use vaginal spermicide yourself for double protection. If you are not brave enough or rich enough for this, you are not old enough to be having sex. There are some links on myspace/grandpaviv that might further help you. P.S. that early in the cycle and not cumming, your chance of pregnancy from this incident is low - maybe only a few percent. Good luck!



j432 - May 28th, 2007 6:40 PM

You are probably fine, I would guess 95% you are not pregnant, but take my advise and go get on the pill.


SaraH - May 28th, 2007 7:55 PM

Always a chance, but sounds very unlikely. It sounds so unlikely that I wouldn't worry about it right now at all. He didn't ejaculate inside of you, he used a condom, you just got of your period so you most likely were not ovulating at that time...VERY unlikely that you're pregnant. So, relax and don't worry uless you don't get your period.


espie1234 - May 28th, 2007 9:19 PM

what if he used a used condom.
he turned it inside out.
he didnt cum the 1st time we used it
the 2nd time he did. but inside the condom


worried27 - May 28th, 2007 9:46 PM

what is it that people think that it is smart to turn them inside out? you should never ever re-use a condom. even though he didnt ejaculate the first time, there are still sperm in pre-ejaculate which almost always happens. so if some pre ejaculate got on the inside of the condom, and then you turn it inside out, then what side is exposed into you? the side that previously had ejaculate on it...



babybradley - May 29th, 2007 10:00 AM

I agree why is it that people think it is ok to turn the condom inside out!!!! Um READ the instructions on the outside of a condom pack!!!!!! It says NEVER reuse a used condom that includes turning it inside out... Condoms arent made just to prevent pregnancy they are made to help protect against STDs and if you flip it inside out it doesnt help protect against ethier!!! Good luck!