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Meena, you don't say what country you are in or give your age - India and 16? Boys are all about having sex, but the girls have to carry the consequences. Tell him that true love would not be making these demands. If you decide to do it anyway, learn about your fertile window. Fertility begins to increase about the time your period ends, and peaks at the time of ovulation, usually 14 days before your next expected period. It would be wise to use a second method of protection as well as the condom, in case of breakage. Vaginal spermicide would help, or a hormone method of birth control. The last week before your period is the least fertile. Once your hymen is broken, the pain problem will go away. If you do happen to get pregnant, the only way to end the pregnancy is by abortion, which is expensive or dangerous depending on the country you are in. For some reason I feel that you are already doing sexual things - know that sperm in your vagina can get you pregnant even if your hymen is not broken. Good luck!

I would wait until you are married and know more about the subject. Sex is great when you've foud the right guy. Just tell your boyfriend your not ready and that you wont be influenced. Even with acondom you can stil get pregnant, althugh it is very slim chances. I dont kwo where you are from but there is someone here who can try and answer your questions. My opinion, wwait...its worth it.

Well I don't necessarily think you should get married to have sex, although it's a great idea and I admire anyone who waits. Just really make sure this is the right guy because if he isn't and you find the right guy later, you might regret that you couldn't give your virginity to him. I lost my virginity to the father of my baby and I have never once regretted it because at the time, and now, I was VERY sure of myself and not scared at all. Not saying you aren't ready or haven't thought about it, just in case because its a big decision to make. Now, to answer your question... Some girls' first time are really painful, others don't think it hurts at all. My first time didn't hurt very much at all, it just stings and bled a little. As for the important question; Pregnancy. I feel the best way to have a good chance of preventing pregnancy is to have at least two forms of birth control. I recommend the two most commonly used and effective; The pill and a condom.

no i didn't mean to wait until your married...Loli meant wait until your commited to marriage. LOl like finding the person you want to be married too....like not just any relationship but when you both have promised to marry eachother...i know those that wait until marriage as well...whichputs less stress onto the relationship...lol i typed the other bit too fast...and i guess i didn't really think of the way i wanted to write it. Lol

You're obviously not ready, so don't. If he really loves you. he'll wait until you are. Ged educated about it all first, on contraception etc

i dont recomend that you have sex with you bf, only because i kno what it is like to get pregnant and not wont to be... tell him you are not ready and if you like you like he tells you he does or if he tells you he love s you that he should be abble to wait until you are best of luck xoxoxoxo savina

I think you should wait, if he's pressuring you...no GOOD boyfriend would ever do something like that. Does he know about the pain? My boyfriend and I waited three years until we had sex for the first time...so just wait a while...

If your scared about having sex it obviously means you dont feel 100% comfortable, and if your not comfortable you should wait until your completely ready. Me and my boyfriend have been together 8months, we started having sex straight away and it felt okay, but when I actually fell in love with him it was much much MUCH better. Everytime is my best time now. I reccomend you wait until you defo think your ready. You should also think about birth control as well as condoms (use both not just one or the other). Condoms can break, birth control isnt 100% (I feel pregnant while on the pill I should know lol).
My best advice is to not let him pressure you into doing something your not ready for. You will know in your heart when your ready so just take it slow.