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To Have Baby On Due Date?

9 posts on this thread and the last post was on May 1st, 2006 12:24 AM
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BabyGirl - April 25th, 2006 8:23 AM
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Hey everyone. Im just writing because im getting a little worried. Okay well my due date is May 4 (8 days away.) Last year my grandmother committed sucide in April 2005 ( i know , very very sad.) I was pretty close to her, she lived with me and my family for a while , and this happened just a month after i moved out of my moms home. So , as you can see, we talked alot. Just 4 months after she passed away, i became pregnant , and the due date is May 4, HER BIRTHDAY. It has totally spooked me out! I don't like this idea at all. Im so worried that im going to give birth on her birthday, i really really really dont want to! My grandma had a lot of problems and my baby being born on her due date... just gives me the shivers. Whats the chances of me giving birth on my due date? Like i said this is only 8 days away...! Also, should i be so freaked out about it? Should i care if she is born on her due date? Just i would love other peoples opinions on this please , i dont know what to think!


ladybug - April 25th, 2006 8:28 AM

That is kinda weird but i wouldnt read too much into it. I'm sorry to hear about the way it happened but maybe this is a way she is telling you something..like she's okay and she knows you're having a baby and shes happy for you. ive gathered a lot of info and most babies are not born on their due date anyway so dont freak out lol. you might be late. best of luck and stress out. everything happens for a reason.


bean - April 25th, 2006 9:40 AM

I believe the statistic is that only 5% of babies are actually born on their due date. Is this your first? If so, then chances are pretty darn good he or she will be late. The "date" is only a 24 hour time period - the chances that the baby chooses exactly one of those 24 to arrive on are slim. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Sorry to hear about your grandmother, though!


BabyGirl - April 25th, 2006 9:50 AM

This is my second pregnancy. Thanks! It would be even spookier now if i was to have her on that day because the chances are so low. Mabye i can tell my doctor about it , and see if i dont go by May 2 or something , she can induce me lol i don't know if that would work though.



Heather L - April 25th, 2006 10:42 AM

I think BEAN is right. It's only about 5% of people actually give birth on their Estimated Due Date (EDD). AND, even if she did, this baby is going to be it's own. It's not like she'll be an incarnate of your grandma. Don't worry. *hugs*


Jenn2 - April 25th, 2006 10:50 AM

I can imagine what you are feeling b/c of the coincidence. That is pretty ironic if you ask me. I believe Bean is right....only 5% of babies are born on their actual due date (even though I was one of those 5%).....its not a big chance. Try not to let it worry you.....I'm sure everything will turn out fine.


Tillie - April 25th, 2006 11:08 AM

Another way to look at it is that it would be sort of wonderful if she was born that day--or even that she's due that day. Because you loved your grandmother so much, it might be a wonderful omen to have a new, fresh life born on her birthday. My grandfather committed suicide, so I know how spooky those "days" are--the day of his death, the day of his birth--but they're wonderful, too. They're a reminder of the incredible life that lived, and that is partly responsible for YOUR life, and for your baby's, too. If you can, try to think of it as a blessing. It's nothing to fear!


Bee99 - April 30th, 2006 10:43 PM

Iv never told anyone this but I agree with baby girl and I have no reason or explanation but I was due on the 3rd of July and My Mum who I loved dearly died on the 6th it was my 3rd and I had always gone over I did not want to have the baby on the day my mum died either yet some people would look at it like tillie did/does. Good luck Baby girl.



Micky - April 30th, 2006 10:56 PM

I would not worry about this. I do beleive in re-birth but that is not scary at all. Every new life has it's own destiny. I am not sure if this is helpful but I would be happy if I were you since you liked your grandmother. If you did not like her, then that would be a different story. Enjoy your pregnancy...Everything will be fine..


SuzieQ - May 1st, 2006 12:24 AM

It sounds a bit weird to me too, and i'm not really superstitious. I doubt you'll go into labour on your exact due date I also agree with Tillie though. It may be a symbol of rebirth and a way to honor life, I guess you just need to be able to see it that way.