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I think the concept is right, I mean it is a magical time, and it is a very special moment for you and your family, especially for you and your partner as you have created this little being that you would never have thought could cause so much love before you really get to meet them. So that part I get, and understand, after I had my daughter I was very happy once I recovered (had a needle for the pain and it sort of wiped me out). I was on a massive high, I am sure every mother feels that, and when you look at it you do but dont really remember all the pain of the childbirth, it becomes nothing compared to this wonderful little being you have.
I don't like pain, and I think alot of women are the same, hence why only a few women reach the "orgasmic birth", personally I don't put much stock in it, when I am hurting I dont want to be hugged and kissed or touched, I would rather scratch out your eyes and give you something to cry along with me about....lol...I am sure alot of hubbies get a massive surprise at how strong their sweet little wives become in the labour room. I was asked to please squeeze the metal bars on the bed cause I nearly crushed his hand and considering his are twice the size of mine, that is sum feat.
I read some of the info on the net about this birthing, and I dont see how having a baby in the hospital can be bad, it is a loving atmosphere that the child is born into due to you and your partner or whoever is your support at the time. You cant tell me that a birth coach who delivers your child at home would care anymore than a doctor or midwife?? I dont think so, they have a job to do like a doctor. And considering that you can take in your own special music to listen to and they encourage you to use massage oils and whatever you feel you need to be comfortable, I think it has changed alot from the sterile environment that it makes out.

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