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9 Mos Old - A Few Questions

4 posts on this thread and the last post was on August 1st, 2007 12:37 PM
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SuzieQ - July 18th, 2007 12:50 AM
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Hi everyone - I hope 9 months is considered "toddlerhood". I get all different ages for this! Anyways, my dd is just over 9 mos old and we are running into a few concerns. First, she has started crying and crying when she's tired (that sounds kind of silly, I know). But she's never done this before, and I'm not sure why she is getting so upset. It takes her 10-15 minutes to settle down into her nap, even when I try to nurse her to sleep. Is this just a developmental thing because she's learning to be more independent? I've just been holding her and either talking calmly to her, or singing while she cries. Any other suggestions? Secondly, she constantly pokes and scrapes at faces, which actually hurts us and the other babies she's with. I don't want to just say, "No, that hurts" because I feel that she doesn't understand reasoning yet, but am not sure how to stop her from doing it other than distracting her. Anyways, I hope you have some suggestions for us! Thanks :)


SuzieQ - July 20th, 2007 2:38 PM

wow. no answers on any of my posts! This forum sure has dried up.....


Crystal83 - July 20th, 2007 2:52 PM

I had the same problems with my l/o starting around 8 months. I think a lot of it has to do with their development and they are getting to the age where they think they are missing out on something by going to sleep before mom does. Also My oldest had a lot of problems with teething around that age, even though it didn't seem like she was in pain she would cry everytime I put hr down in her crib but would be fine when I got her out, it was because she was in pain though. She may be able to underdstand the word NO but the only way to get her to understand is to say it clearly with eye contact and remove her from the area. I hope this helps a bit, GL!


SuzieQ - July 21st, 2007 1:55 AM

Thanks Crystal :) She had her other top tooth come through today, so I think you're right on the teething issue.



CassieSong - August 1st, 2007 12:37 PM

I would tell her say "no that hurts" like you say. Make sure your voice is stern so she at least senses what mood your in and that you disapprove. My dd was always rough as a young toddler too, but she is finally getting better now at almost 20 months. And just fyi, I think toddler is when a baby begins walking (thus the name.. toddler). That is my opinion.