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Hi, I haven't been on here in a while but am at my wits end with an issue my daughter has. She is now almost 14 months old and since she started solids at 6 to 8 months I've been posting here and at the infant care forum about her "crying poops". She is such a happy baby/toddler and is wonderful overall but when she has a bowel movement she pulls her knees up, turns red, breaks out in a sweat and screams/cries and is in PAIN! I can tell by the cry. She used to reach for me to hold her when she pooped and I'd push her knees up in her belly but now she goes off on her own and sits on the floor and does it. It is killing me. I've told her pedi about it for months and she says to give her more water. I'm TRYING! You can't force water on a toddler. It's enough to get her to drink her three 8 oz cups of milk each day (and she gets it all for the most part). I usually can get 8 oz of water mixed with juice in her in a day though. That sounds normal right? Well she is not constipated, she has at least one bowel movement per day but it is often large and pretty hard (can break apart--kind of like a ball of playdough that's been left out to dry or something?). Her dr. said at her 12 mo appt that if the water does not work they will prescribe a laxative at 15 months. I don't watn to mask the problem, I want to know if there is something wrong in her gut! HAS ANYONE ELSE EXPERIENCED THIS? Is it normal for a childd her age to cry when pooping? i heard it was normal in babies b/c they are getting used to passing harder stools, but this is not right what she is going through.
My fear also stems from that her older half brother (her father's child) is 12 and has similar issues since he was born yet he still poops his pants and has been diagnosed with autism. There is a link between the bowel problems and the autism I've read and it scares the crap out of me. She shows no outward signs now, but I'm afraid it could come. As for her brother, his mother isn't doing much to help him and they live far away. She says she can't get him into a gastro b/c his pedi won't refer! I'm so frustrated. Anyways, no dr. will tell me what is normal and what is not so I'm resorting to this forum as the site has helped me more than doctors since before I got pregnant. Thank you for reading this novel.... Stef

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