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i had a hsg done in april on cd7. to see wether the surgeon had done a good job, with the tubal reversal. both tubes open fully. i was told the next following 3 months are really good.. my hubby though wont be told when to bd. so most months since my reversal were a total loss..simply due to lack of bd'ing.. i didnt tell the dr that though. i would look dumb.. so he put me on clomid. and on the 2nd cycle, it was just pot luck that my b'day was exactly the moment of ovulation. and i didnt need to say a thing...lol.. always get lucky for yr birthday.. and thats that. here i am now 6 and a half weeks into it. and i wouldnt worry too much about only one tube being open. you can only release an egg from one or the other side each month.. and the egg passes into the tube where it meets the goods.. it may just mean that every second month is your time.. dont wear yr hubby out. and stress.. i had one bd for that month and it worked. mind you i havent had one since.. thats just the way he is... i am 36, he is almost 41. we have kids each from previous relationships. i was giving up if it didnt work by x-mas.. the moment i was content, it happened.. enjoy each other. dont make this yr only priority, it will eat you up.. get the x-mas tree out of the shed and start planning and organising. amuse yr mind with something else for a while. if you know yr fertile time, just try 2-3 times and let it be.. i have looked at fertilty friends charts, the ones doing it constantly are coming off 2nd best to the ones doing it occassionally... maybe the fresh sperm cant get past the 3 day old sperm to do the job.. talk soon xxx Jo

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