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Want Twins??? Does SO Know??

359 posts on this thread and the last post was on October 19th, 2009 8:31 PM
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Krissy68 - August 27th, 2009 5:41 PM

SoReady - How are you doing? Did you ever get a postive on your opk? I know it is hard and my fiance have done this a few times so that is why I stop telling him that we have to really bd during this time frame he don't even know when I am ovulating I have been taking my opk test at work and I normally do it when I get back from taking my daughter to kindergarten so then I can plan my attack. I am keeping my fingers cross and I hoping you get your bfp this cycle. I hope he starts working with you. Have a nice evening. As for me I am on cd20/7dpo and my temp is 98.41 and my points are 41. Krissy


Krissy68 - August 27th, 2009 5:47 PM

SoReady - Made a mistake I am on cd20/9dpo. I guess I was just typing to fast. Krissy


SoReady - August 28th, 2009 3:09 AM

Krissy - I still haven't gotten a +OPK. I am having bw done today to tell me if I O'ed. Part of me hopes that I didnt so that I still have a chance this cycle. I really dont have any hope for this cycle anymore. First FF said that I O'ed on cd14 which wasnt so bad because we bd'ed on cd12 BUT now it says that I O'ed on cd16. I dont thik that a BFP is in my future this month because we only bd'ed 4 days before FF says I O'ed.

Last cycle I told dh when we needed to do it and he was too tired because of work. I was disappointed but I was supportive of him. This cycle I wasnt planning on telling him when I was O'ing so that I could take the pressure off him. Somehow he managed to be too tired again when we needed it. This cycle I am o pissed at him. He knows that we can only try thru October. Deep down I feel like he is doing this on purpose. He tells me that he is willing to try for another baby but his body actions tell a different story.

So I am getting revenge. If he wont do it when I need him to then we wont do it at all. I know that I can hold out longer then him.



Krissy68 - August 28th, 2009 3:59 PM

SoReady - How are you doing? I'm thinking about you. Have you gotten your blood results back yet? Don't give up just yet you never know our body sometimes have a mind of its own. Try and stay positive. Why are you only trying until October?

I know how you feel when you know you are suppose to bd during a certain time they want to flake out on you. My fiance have done this to me a few times and pissed me off so I just cut him off and trust me we can go a lot longer than they can. What piss me off the most is because anytime they want it we give it up no question asked but when we ask they are so tired. That is why I stop telling him that we need to be taking care of our business I don't even do the opk test at home I always do them at work unless I have to do it over the weekend and I keep the test hid so he never knows.

Here is my little update I am currently on cd21/10dpo and just hanging out. I am still tired, I was a little quessy earlier but that have seem to left, now starting to get a headache, did have some very very mild cramps, a little dizzy, and my mouth was watering. I will be off line after today until Tuesday. My oldest daughter and 2 granddaughters are moving to West Virginia on Monday so it is going to be a very sad day for me. I will be okay. I am not testing until my test date which is Sep 4 and AF is due on Sep 5. I hope you have a nice weekend and I will talk to you on Tuesday. Krissy


laura_mae99 - August 28th, 2009 4:42 PM

Krissy68- thanks for the update girl. I am sorry to here about your daughter moving to Virginia. My husband is leaving for school on the navy base on sunday. He will be in virginia tell my birthday sep.11th. I still haven't gotten my meds. I called again and its on back order. I found another place where i can order them. so its going to be awhile. I was so upset. I might cancle the order and order from someone else. This really sucks. But i totally fee ya about the better half. I got all my test in and told hubby we could start trying this month. I O'd yesterday and today... my left side cramped yesterday and then today my right side cramped... but hubby hasn't even come near me.. I told him to... and hes talking to me about babie names and everything else but then when it comes down to doing business hes like i am tired... I am just kind of fed up. It really isn't fun when they pull that. But if he pulls that with me after i get my meds... that man is getting raped... LOL But if all goes well i should be starting mid sep. but i wanted to know what u mean buy the (( currently on cd21/10dpo )) i wasn't sure what it meant... sorry honey


SoReady - August 28th, 2009 5:22 PM

Krissy - Apparently they dont do the blood test here. They had to send it off and I wont get the results for 2 weeks. Whats the point of getting the test if I cant find out the answer!

So I talked to my OB and she said to call her if AF doesnt arrive in 2 weeks or on cd1 which ever comes first. If Af doesnt arrive then she will do a pregnancy test and provera if it is a BFN. If cd1 comes then I will be taking 100 mg cd5-9 with the hcg shot.

I am glad that I am not the only one that holds out when I am mad. Next cycle I am going to trick him. He knows that I regularly have long cycles so I'm just not going to tell him when AF arrives. I will keep holding out until after AF passes. Then 3 days before I O (I'll know the date because I am getting the shot) I will tell him AF just finished so he will want to do it like rabbits.

I guess we will see what happens.


Krissy68 - August 28th, 2009 7:14 PM

laura_mae99 - I was talking about my cycle days I am currently on cycle day 21 and 10 days past ovulation. I know what you mean and just try to stay positive and go for it. That really sucks about your meds.

SoReady - that really sucks that you have to wait 2 weeks you will never find out anything in a timely matter. I like the plan she has for you. Will she be giving you the HCG shot or do you have to give it to yourself. Good Luck because that might be all you need. Sounds like a plan and he will never know. Have a nice weekend and I will talk to you on Tuesday. Krissy



mamato2more - August 30th, 2009 8:44 AM

My sister wants twins in the worst way, and I just had to tell her that I am expecting them...she cried..had to get off the phone..She said she was happy for me, but sad for her, like I took her chance...wow..that's overboard...


Krissy68 - September 1st, 2009 7:13 PM

mamato2more - Congratulation to you and how far along are you? I am so sorry that your sister is feeling this way. I hope get over feeling this way. Good Luck to you and let us know from time to time how you are doing and Rub your belly for me. Krissy68


laura_mae99 - September 3rd, 2009 6:11 PM

hey girls... just checking in with ya'll seeing how ya'll are doing. I finally have good news on my end... my meds are finally on there way. I had to cancle the order i made with the first company... and i went with I want meds. They had a great price... and they do 100% satifact. so if i not happy in any way... they ship me out more meds free of charge... isn't that great... but i got my tracking number today.. so i sould be able to start here when my period comes... plus hubby gets home on sep.12... right when i should be starting my period... so i am really excited. But we did have sex twice before he left... I don't feel prego at all... so i am hoping it all works out and stuff... anyways.. how are ya'll doing? any news... drop in and fill me in when ya'll get a chance... baby dust to all laura


Krissy68 - September 3rd, 2009 8:44 PM

laura_mae99 - This is wonderful news and I am so happy for you. Keep us posted.

Hey girls here is my little update. My temp tank today so fertility friend might just be right it said that AF will be here today so far nothing but I know she is coming I am having the worst cramps every. I amon cd27/16dpo my temp went way down from yesterday 98.33 to 97.82. If she don't show up tonight then I will still test tomorrow since it is my test date. I am going to be happy either way tomorrow because it is pay day and I can send in another payment to the fertility doctor and my new balance will either be $550.00 or $375.00. I will update in the morning. Krissy


SoReady - September 4th, 2009 7:56 AM

laura - That is great news. I am waiting for AF to arrive also. I am expecting it about the same time that you are so maybe we will be cycle buddies. Have you decided how much you are going to take?


divadivina2u - September 4th, 2009 8:07 AM

Soready,will you be taking at the end of your flow this month? I am starting it by the end of october.


laura_mae99 - September 4th, 2009 8:13 AM

SoReady - sounds great girl... I am thinking 100mg days 3-7 another gal that i talk to on cafemom did 100mg days 3-5 and then 125mgs on days 6 and 7 buy times she got prego with her 2 sets of twins... so i am kind of thinking that... hubby really wants to shoot for an aug. due date baby... but i think we would have to get prego in DEC right? I took a pregnancy test this monring it was nagative... but i still have another week or so... my period should be coming sep. 11th on my b-day... and hubby gets home right then... poor guy... so i am hoping with the period and him being gone... he will be ready to go when i am ready to go on with the meds.. i am so so so excited... We are going to try for a boy.. any good tips? also... i found this... and thought it was kind of cool i didn't know that...

this is a q and a thing with a doc...

Member: Is it true that there is really only a day or two of true conception - even though it is thought that days 13 to 16 are the true days?


Grunebaum: Actually there is only a 12-hour period of conception. The time after the egg pops out from the ovary (ovulation) until it dies 12 hours or so later. Fertilization, when the sperm enters the egg, can only happen during that 12-hour period.


Now you probably wanted to know something different, I think. You wanted to know during which period you can make love in order to get pregnant. Here is the calculation: sperms live on average one to three days. And they need about 12 hours inside the uterus in order to get "prepped" to fertilize the egg. Those 12 hours are also known as "capacitation." In order to get pregnant live sperm must be inside the woman's uterus at or before ovulation. Making love after ovulation is unlikely to get you pregnant. If you make love regularly every day or every other day during the five to six days prior to ovulation, then you can make sure enough sperm is there to fertilize the egg.


SoReady - September 4th, 2009 4:41 PM

divadivina - I will be taking it again shortly after Af arrives. So on cd3-7 I will take 100mg.


divadivina2u - September 4th, 2009 4:53 PM

So ready, wish you luck...........baby dust dust dust!


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