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SCARED TO DISAPPOINT MY BABY

4 posts on this thread and the last post was on October 5th, 2006 1:25 PM
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love-- - October 1st, 2006 5:41 AM
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im only 14 going on 15 weeks.. but im going to b a 17 year old mom by the time i give birth. school, baby, babys father, family, friends.. i feel like trying to do all at onc i will fail somewhere and disappoint my child in the long run. its just a scary feeling to know what if i dont do this for my child and what if i dont make him happy to the full potential.. so hen would i even b a good parent to my child? has this bothered any of u at any time of ur pregnany?


Tammy276 - October 2nd, 2006 1:23 AM

being pregnant is a lot to take on, especially at your young age, but don't worry about it. I'm sure you will be a great mother. Everyone worries about whether they will be a good parent, no matter how old we are. If you finish school and get that education, I'm sure you will not dissapoint your child. Your family and friends will be there for you to help you through everything.


tyler0323 - October 2nd, 2006 12:40 PM

first off, dont stress your self out over family and friends and trying to please everyone else. Concentrate on you and your baby. As long as your baby is happy and healthy, there is no disappointing him/her. let everyone else sort out there issues themselfs. Your baby is going to be happy with spending time with you, having a shiny new toy, playing in the bath etc... and when they get older, its a little easier. Dont worry so much about this.


love-- - October 5th, 2006 12:49 PM

what about financially supporting my baby. the father is doing his best and i want to get a job to help the baby out. it feels like i can have all the money in the world and it still wont b enough for my child. maybe im just a little too nervous because now my parents r treating me the worst.



tyler0323 - October 5th, 2006 1:25 PM

There is help out there. Having the fathers support is a huge help for you. If your parents wont help you, make an appointment with social services. They are there to help people in need.