18 Years Of Age And Want A Baby

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holly - March 31

hi hunn, i feel exactly the same. I just cant get it off my mind! Everywhere i go i see mothers with new born babies. The thought of waking up every night doesnt even put me off. First off i suggest you read up on pregnancy and labour and really think about your income. Can your partner support you and a new born???? Could you cope with sleepless nights for years? I know i should wait but i cant, so i know how you feel! I hope you make the right descision, I say go for it! GOOD LUCK!

 

Stephanie - April 1

Holly why do you thing can my man support me and baby?? Can you support yourself?? The baby?? Then don't bring something into this world just yet!! You are obviously not ready!

 

Jack - April 2

I dont think that having a baby at a young age is a good idea.Because its going to be hard.

 

Delii - April 4

I dont think that there is anything wrong with wanting a baby. I am 18 too and i am coming off the pill soon as me and my boyfriend both want a baby. Is it something that you and your boyfriend want?

 

Vanessa Stuck in Alaska - April 6

I'll have to say that I do Miss my weekend partys and my Coronas! And i'm 23. My first was born when i was 17. So even when you think your ready just double check yourself, just in case. I'm not saying that your not ready, but I loved my wedding dress body which was a size 3 ! ouch!!!

 

Larenda Maldonado - April 14

no i think has long has you and your boyfriend are reading to having kids then you should. but if you are not ready to have kids but you think you are well let me just say it's alot of hard work i'm 19 years old now and i had my first child when i was 18 years of age because i thought that me and my boyfriend were ready to have kids but we weren't because now we are aorking so me hours now to raise our little girl but then we hardly see her that much because while were working she's at the babysitters house from 11:30a.m. until around 10:30-10:45p.m. and by the time we get home it's time to put her down to sleep and get ready for work the next day we spend as much time as we can with her on Saturdays and Sundays. so if you think your ready to have kids then make sure that you are really ready to have kids o.k. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!! Larenda

 

Emma - April 24

ok i just wanna start by saying I don't need ne one judging me because i wake up everyday d__ning myself. I'm 20 and 6 months ago fount out i was pregnant, All my life I've watched many of my cousins have children at very young ages and seeing how my family reacted gave me a negative view of pregnancy in general. I also watched two of my best friends in high school getting pregnant and dealing with the negative att_tudes of again pregnancy and child rearing. So when I found out I was expecting the terror of letting my family down was all i could think of. Juat picturing all those tv movies on teen pregnancy being such a horrible thing. But I'm not a teenager and I was just so confused about what i should feel I felt like people would look at me and say "darn shame kids having kids" and again i just felt this way because to me all i had had ever intrupeted was negative att_tudes about pregnancy. I made the worst mistake of my life within 3 days I had found out and terminated the pregnancy before I ever gave myself a chance to stop and be rational. And I regret soo much doing what did I only hope that i will be forgiven. Having maternal feelings when your 18 is sooooo normal we are at our most basic core still mammals( animals) and you can't fight natural cycles. If u feel like u think u can handle the bad with good of being a mother then I say u should let nature take it's course. But Don't go looking for it . Live life the way you should as an 18 year old and if you happen to find your self in a family way then congrats but don't let everyone eles' oppinons effect you decsions. I made the wrong decesion that way because i was overwhelmed by others oppions. But i do wanna say if u have to ask if its ok from strangers your not ready.

 

Steph - April 29

I am 14 years old and I really want my own child to love and raise how I want to. (in a good way) Is there anything wrong with that?

 

nea - April 29

Theres nothing wrong with you. I got married and had a baby at 19. Of course its hard but its also extremely satisfiying. I am now pregnant with my second. What you really need to ask yourself is whether you are going to miss the life you had before. If you party alot or enjoy going to the movies or dinner often, having a child is going to put a kink in that life. I wish you the best of luck if you decide that its what you want to do but keep in mind, you cant turn back time, you have the biggest commitment of your life in the years to come.

 

nealynn - April 29

Theres nothing wrong with you. I got married and had a baby at 19. Of course its hard but its also extremely satisfiying. I am now pregnant with my second. What you really need to ask yourself is whether you are going to miss the life you had before. If you party alot or enjoy going to the movies or dinner often, having a child is going to put a kink in that life. I wish you the best of luck if you decide that its what you want to do but keep in mind, you cant turn back time, you have the biggest commitment of your life in the years to come.

 

breyann - May 3

i dont blame you i feel the same way. i believe that if your ready and are positive you are ready to give up all of your free time, and alone time you may be ready and make sure your guy is the right one. i want one as well and i want to make sure everything is like i want it first

 

Carolyn - May 4

There is nothing wrong with wanting children. Make sure you have a loving relationship to back you up. I had two babies by the time I was 19 and single. It was very hard. Live your life while you don't have any responsiblities. You'll have lots of time to have children. Beleive me, it's hard to have young reckless fun when your responsible for a little one.

 

Jullietta - May 9

hum.......yea i think there is something wrong and something not wrong wit that i don't know all i know is that m under 18 but i still wanna get pregnant but if ur under 21 i heard that bad stuff can either happen to u or the baby more likely happen to the baby. thats all i gotta say now, is there something wrong with the fact that i wanna have a baby when i am 15 years old which is now? i understand the fact that most people wanna get pregnant at this age cause they wanna be a great cool mom when their kids is like in their teen hood!

 

Gina - May 9

Did anyone see the Mets game yesterday?

 

JR - May 9

Hell NO

 

Tykeisha - May 10

yes there something wrong with that because you is to young for that

 

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