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autumn85 - May 9

ok i already asked this but for some reason it isnt showing up...i am 20 and my bf is 27. we arent married yet but we plan to next year. i know he wants to start a family because he feels he is getting older and wants to be able to enjoy his kids. i am not against the idea because i feel we are both ready and could handle it but i just wanted to know what anyone else thought.

 

Evonna - May 9

I was in a similar sitaution like this before, when i was 17 he was20 years of age. He feels that since he is getting older that he is ready to settle down and start a family and get married. I was not for at the time because i was still young and i really wanted to wait. I loved him alot but wasn't prepared, it was all too quick for me. Now that i am 19 years old, he decided to propose to me and now we are engaged. I am kind of glad that he respected my wishes and waited until i was ready. My pregnancy wasn't planned but my Fiance' is so very happy that i am having his child and he told everybody, lol. I kind of wander if my pregnancy was planned for him, because when i told him i was pregnant he started to call up folks and tell them the news. But if he did get me pregnant on purpose, i ain't mad at him, because i love him to death. If you feel you aren't ready, let him know. It won't be easy because when i told my Fiance' i wanted to take it slowly, he was mad, LOL. He really wanted to marry me. You are 20 years old girl, go for it. I bet he will take great care of you & yalls kids.

 

autumn85 - May 9

thanks. oh i would get married today if he wanted to. i love him and he loves me. i guess as long as we are engaged it doesnt really matter to me because i know that we are going to be together anyways.

 

Evonna - May 9

Yes, since you & him are engaged..why not get married. Me and my Fiance' are getting married soon. I really truly think he loves you alot because he wants to start a family with you . Enjoy!

 

autumn85 - May 10

we are going to get married but we just hadnt planned on doing it yet...but i guess we could push the date up but i guess we'll see!

 

im_danielle_hi - May 10

well i a 19 and my bf is 27 and we are planning a baby and i cant wait till it happens been of the pill from the 4th march

 

autumn85 - May 10

that sounds kinda like my situation! only that i have been off bc for only about 2 weeks

 

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