Pregnant And Unsure Please Help

0 Replies
Ashley24 - October 22

Hello I am 24 and just found out I am pregnant (my regular physician proved it with a positive urine test). My physician says I am very early on, 4 weeks or so. I am going to be going to my OB/GYN on the 25th to find out excatly how far I am. Now that I have that out of the way I can explain the problem. I am not sure what to do about being pregnant. I am keeping my mind open to all options, but I just don't know what is right. I do want children someday and my boyfriend and I have been together a long time, but financially it just isn't an option. I can barely afford where I live now and I rent a room in my brothers house, no extra room for a baby. I am about 6 months shy of graduating college, but I am afraid that I still wouldn't have enough time to get set-up at a better paying job and be able to get a place to raise my child. When it comes to the idea of abortion I just can't imagine doing that, it makes me very nervous and scared and start asking "what if". A part of me keeps thinking this also might be my only chance at having a child. I just don't know what to do. I honestly don't know if I could go through with adoption, I think it would kill me to know my child was out there without me by his/her side. Is there any advice anyone can give me? Anything that would make sense. I need to think logically right now and I just can't seem to do it. Any help would be great thank you.

 

ADD A COMMENT:


You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!


Already a member?
Please login below.





Forgot your password?
Need Help?