Bad Thoughts

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gina143 - May 9

Has anyone got pregnant on purpose, with out telling there DH? just wondering. We plan of having another baby next year.. but i dont think I can wait till then......

 

frankschick2001 - May 9

This is NOT a good idea. You don't want to conceive that way. You can wait. Imagine if it were the men who got pregnant and he got pregnant behind your back? That would be the lowest thing ever.

 

gina143 - May 9

ya I know..... I just really want one NOW!

 

ezwaggy - May 9

I kind of feel like I pressured my husband a little and I feel bad enough about that. You want being pregnant to be a really happy time for both of you - don't ruin it by making plans that don't include your partner. Plus a year will go by so fast.

 

gina143 - May 9

how did you pressure him? How was that?

 

gina143 - May 9

I only want one now cuz Im gonna be 24 and hes gonna be 38 and my daughter is going to be 3, I want my kids close together... and hes getting old ya know?...

 

ezwaggy - May 9

Well i basically told him it would make me really happy and he wanted to make me happy so we tried (and succeeded) but before we knew it worked he told me that if it didn't work this time he wanted to wait because he just wasn't ready. Well now I'm pregnant and I know he doesn't feel ready so it was a little anit-climactic. I wish now that we could have looked at that + on the test and been really excited together.

 

ezwaggy - May 9

Writing that down just made me really sad! Maybe it's the hormones :)

 

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