I Lost My Baby

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Keishia - January 18

I lost my baby friday the Jan.13th,2006,I was 10 weeks,still passing clots,and tissue....i'm so sad and depressed,i was 10 weeks,can someone talk to me.i'm 17,i'll be 18 in july. my baby was going to be my second child,i have a 3 year old daughter already. my e-mail is [email protected]

 

Becca D - January 18

Keishia - I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost a baby at 10 weeks...last January. It was one of the hardest things I have ever been thru. I know everyone says it, but it's true - it was your bodies way of helping out this baby...that would not have survived on the outside. I know it doesn't help..to you that was your baby, your dream. I know - like I said, it's devestating...I still get sad about the one I lost last year. It will get easier and just love and kiss your daughter and remember you were blessed to have her and pray for the one you lost. I know these words are not comforting at all at this point....so all I can say is I am so so sorry!!

 

keishia - January 18

thank u so much,for all the comforting things you've said,thank u a lot......at i have another person that makes me feel better about this situation,my boyfriend and u,so far.when i told my mom i had lost my baby,she said,"u didn't need another one any way".that really brought me down because a child is a gift from God,and my mom out of all people put me down,but anyway becca d,thank u

 

Angela W. - January 18

Hi Keishia. I was pregnant with twins and found out I lost one of them a little after christmas. I was only about 7wks when it was confirmed, so it was earlier than you. I just wanted to let you know that even though people will say things like what your mother did or say well, you're young you have plenty of time, it is important to give yourself time to grieve. Irregardless, you had hopes and dreams for this baby just like you have for your daughter. You have a right to feel sad, angry, sorry for yourself, whatever- and you will probably feel all of them. I hope this gets easier for you and good luck.

 

suzieQ - January 18

Keishia, I'm so sorry for you loss. Please feel free to join the m/c forum - the women there are so wonderful and this is something that is not easy to get through. I've had two m/c's and it's been rough. Best wishes

 

Becca D - January 19

Keishia, I am just so sorry your mother would say something like that. There is another forum that's great for m/c support. I joined it last year when I had my last m/c It's The PAM support group....pregnancy after miscarriage - the web address is this www.pamsupport.org - take out any dashes that might show up!! Like Angela said, it's important to give yourself time to grieve - take care of you and don't forget that.

 

cat - January 25

Hi Keishia, I lost my baby last May and it was absolutely dreadful. I was 12 weeks gone and thats the time when i thought, " yeah, ive come this far now, just getting out of early stages, i prob wont lose the baby", feeling almost certain and sure of myself, then WHAM, whole life upside down. I had told more or less everyone i knew that i was pregnant, even my 6year old daughter. It was just awful, at the time!! But time does go on and things do get better! I remeber thinking that i dont want to try for another baby again cos I couldnt bare going through what I went through again, but here I am 8 months after I miscarried and 6.5 weeks pregnant feeling quite good again, but just that little niggle at the back of my mind after last time, but it doesnt consume me. What happened to you was natural, but also very sad!! Good luck in the future!!

 

Caryn - January 31

Hi Keishia, I lost my 3rd baby monday gone I was 8 weeks, the one before that was 8 weeks also and twins and the one before that was 12 weeks. Like you I have a daughter and feel so luck to have her, who would have thought it was so hard to even fall pregnant let along hold one. everone says give your body time to heal but i think the soul needs more than the body ever will. am thinking of you...

 

katt76 - January 31

Keisha, I am very sorry to hear about your loss, I will keep you in my prayers. Angela W. I have question for you how did it work out when you lost one of your twins?? Did you bleed or pa__s clots or tissue?? I am asking because they think that is what is happening to me???

 

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