Judge My Unborn S Father Cont

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Cinshon - April 25

Alot of you stop in an still give your opinion and I'm open to still listen to them that's why I made another thread

 

Cinshon - April 25

To Nickiedo, I understand what you are saying but from what I see of it I'm going to be depressed regardless it will haunt me just as bad knowing my son had a brother or sister out there that I gave away, it's all so stressful to think about, If the situation was different I wouldn't be so down about a baby, I feel so alone. Before I got preg I was already on depression med. now stop and imagine how I feel after the doctor said I couldn't take it anymore, everyday I have bad thoughts, it's Terriable.

 

Stephanie - April 27

Hey Cinshon I got your E-mail and wrote you back. I also wrote in the 1st judge my unborns father bc I could'nt find this one. For some reason I thought you were in General Q.

 

Cinshon - April 27

Yea I got your email thanks for checking on me Steph.

 

NickieDo - April 28

My heart goes out to you, as this will not be an easy decision to make, but I believe that whatever you decide, there will be people here to offer support, and hopefully be nonjudgemental and try to help out instead of casting out criticism. (People are supposed to HELP eachother, not tear them down) If it were me, I'd look into adoption, you can choose the family and still be a part of the child's life if you wish. and when you have other children, when they are old enough to understand, then you can explain to them your situation.

 

Cinshon - April 28

I ythought about it but I'm sure they both would say that's not the solution cause they want there kid, then I'm stuck with all the crt_tcisum they will tell the child when it get's older about how I didn't want it and there I go hafta live with that. I don't know it's all my fault and I guess I hafta deal with it no matter how misearable I will be, I don't imagine life will get any better for me, being happy is something I will never know again I'm sure of it.

 

Stephanie - April 29

CInshon you know I think its kinda funny bc I listen to what you say and OMG I use to feel that same way thought my life would never change and then it did....Got a great job- more money and after 5 years of being single I met Mr. right and thats Steve the one I am pg with now. Cinshon it will get better keep your head up girl I love ya and you know I'm only a phone call away right.....................????.........................

 

Cinshon - April 29

Yea, Steph I know your the friend till the end, you know I just get those days where I feel in the dump and everything just fall apart but thanks to the good Lord and good friends I climb back out some how. It's a roller coaster (lol)

 

Cinshon - April 29

Nickiedoo, thanks no one can be as sorry as myself for getting in this situation but I just need a shoulder to lean on when it get's tough, people act like they don't face problems everyday and with good people to help you out and God is the only way.

 

Steph - April 29

I'm so glad that you keep God in your heart bc it is so true! You can lean on me anytime I just wish I were there in person bc I would go to all your Dr. appts with you and rub your belly too! We would eat choc. chip ice cream with hot fudge together. We would also go for evening walks with the kids and talk about the different emotions and how scared and how happy we are! I know I'm way our in Cali but remember we have mobile to mobile sso if you want we can still do most of all these things! We can do them while on the phone What do you think??

 

Steph - April 29

Ohhh.....did you check out my thread?? 7weeks 6 days picture

 

K - April 29

Cinshon, I started reading the whole thread. Istarted to cry when I heard you left the clinic. I cannot possibly know what you are going through, but remember that God has a plan for all of us. I think you will be a wonderful mother, I just think you are confused and upset because you are torn between the baby's possible father. Just think, your baby already has one parent that is looking out for him or her. You sound like you love your boyfriend, and love will conquer all. I will keep you in my thoughts. Lots of hugs for you.

 

Cinshon - May 2

Yea, Steph, God is all I have, besides you guys, how have you been making it, I haven't checked the new thread out yet but I will, and I just may take you up on the call's to the doctor, I had a awful sore throat this morning and I took some old infection pills with out asking my doctor but I was in so much pain, been in bed most of the day.

 

Cinshon - May 2

yea rb, that's the way some people treat others, when all they are asking is an opinion.

 

Cinshon - May 2

Thanks K, and yea I guess your right, I really would like to tell him but I just cant, Although the chances are 50/50 say's the Doc, I just got this feeling that I was already preg. before the other guy, but I can't lie to the one who don't know and just say it's yours, So I'll just wait and if he ask when I'm really unable to hide anymore, I'll just tell him the truth.

 

Steph - May 4

I think you've made good choices so far Cinshon and the plan that you've come up with to confront him when the time comes sounds like a really good plan too! I don't agree with the pills you took but I know that a friend of mine has chronic back pains- They are so bad that shes already had surgery and has a metal bar to act as her spine! She has to take vicotin for the pain she suffers from. Anyways the Dr. okayed her vicotin after the 1st trimester but limited the amount of her intake! Her baby is very healthy and beautiful too! I also know someone who is now in her 60's but while in her mommies tummy.......She had been taking a pill that was said to be ......make your child very smart.......well she was born deaf because of the pill but is also very smart.........back then it happened bc they did'nt know the problem until it was too late :o( .....................

 

Steph - May 4

Ohhhh......and yes call me anytime and also the weather should be perking up soon for those evening walks :o)

 

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