My Boyfriend Is Driving Me CRAZY Help

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kstill - February 7

Ok. This is my first pregnancy and I'm almost 7 weeks. Before I became pregnant my boyfriend and I were sooo happy...talking about marriage and couldn't wait to have a baby. So I get pregnant and instantly I CAN'T STAND HIM!!! I don't even like looking at him and EVERYTHING he says p___ses me off soooo bad. He is a good guy and I used to love him very much. Is it just my hormones?? I don't know what to do. I feel like I should have him move out of my house because everyday we fight and I get so upset. I absolutely couldn't be more excited about this baby. He or she is ALL I think about. I want to be happy with my boyfriend and share my joy with him. He is just not as thoughtful and sympathetic as I was hoping for. I'm afraid I might lose the baby if I continue to live with this stress day in and day out. Anyone else having problems like this with their boyfriend/spouse?? I need help ladies!!

 

ilovepugs - February 7

my hormones made me into a crazy woman....luckily my hubby is hella understanding. i say it's just hormones makin you a bit wacko :p. if you were so happy before....then i think everything is fine now..... for me at least, every little thing can send me into a fit. explain to him that you're not exactly sane when you're pregnant ::laughs:: ask him to do something nice for you? a nice date? :)

 

Faye84 - February 7

Kstill when I was as far along as you I was thinking the same thing with my husband. I thought our marriage was over and He annoyed me and I just didnt know if i wanted to be with him. But rest a__sured it will all go away. I promise. Now I look at him and cant imagine my life without him. Its the hormones right now, Once you get into your second trimester it will get SO much better. Maybe stay away from each other for the next month or two. Watch TV alone or whatever.

 

kstill - February 7

Thanks. That makes me feel better to know I'm not the only crazy preggo lady out there. :):) Maybe getting out of the house would help. But I don't want to ask him to take me out. Men should just know when to do nice things for their women!!! HAHAHA....yeah right!! Hopefully things will get better soon. He just makes me feel stupid sometimes and I hate that!! He's been wanting to know if I still want to spend the rest of my life with him, i think he may be ring shopping, and I just don't know if I could say yes to him now. Hopefully it will get better. Thanks for your help. How far along are you??

 

MNMOM - February 7

Its hormones sweety. Stick it out, when your hormones level off you will feel better and less irritated by everthing. My first pregnancy I was like that the entire time, always fighting and crying, I was a crazy woman. Once I delivered I was finally myself and in my own right mind again!

 

Faye84 - February 7

kstill I know what you mean, men can be very annoying, I look back and it kinda makes me laugh how I was in my first trimester, I cant beleive how many mood swings i had! I do feel bad though that my husband had to be the runt. My advise is, If before you got pregnant you wanted to be married to this guy, you still want to even though right now you might think otherwise. and I promise it will get better, just wait. Right now Im 26w3d. Only a few more days till i hit my third trimester...Oh and I might I add Your second trimester is going to be GREAT enjoy it. I cant beleive how good I felt. No one told me really how nice it really is. haha

 

kstill - February 7

Thank you ladies. I sure hope y'all are right. I think it will work out once I get back to normal but now my family has been kinda pushing me to just get rid of him. They hate seeing me so upset all the time. It's horrible. I feel like I'm being torn in a million different directions. I'll keep you all posted. Thank you for the encouragement. Faye84, 26weeks? Congrats!! Are you having a boy or girl and is this your first??

 

denimb__terfly - February 7

It's your hormones! I feel the same way about my hubby right now and I keep barking at him for everything. I love him very much and I know it's the hormones. Even though I realize this- I still can't seem to stop wanting to bash him over the head with a frying pan or scream at him :-) (don't worry I don't really do that to him- but you know what I'm saying)

 

kstill - February 7

OHHHH YESS!!! I know what you mean. Everytime my man opens his mouth I want to hit him in the jaw. I haven't yet....he's just a very lucky guy, cause he's been pushing me!! :)

 

tyler0323 - February 7

i understand your situation becuase i was in the same boat. i am now going to be single mom because the fighting was too much. i had just read your other post where you replied to a girl that stress will not harm your baby and you couldnt be more wrong. I had to kick bf out of the house, didnt help, i then had to resort to moving out of town and away from him. the difference between you and i and the situation is that he changed when i got pregnant and turned into a %$$ hole and i ended up loosing all feeling for him instantly, with hormones alll out of wack, it just sped up the process. you are still early in pregnancy, so why dont you try taking a break from one another. he has to respect your changes while pregnant and be there for support, but you also have to respect the fact that he has no idea what you are going through. But i will tell you to stay whre you are stressed is not good for you and the baby!!

 

kstill - February 7

thanks for your input tyler0323. i'm sorry for what you've been going through. i hope things are better for you now. it does seem that stress could cause problems in a pregnancy and I DO still worry about it even though my doc says not too. I do think the less stress the better for both mommy and baby. But on the other hand I DO trust my doctor and do not think she would tell me something that is untrue. But again, thanks for the input and i wish you the best of luck.

 

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