Reply For Anxious Ashley

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Nikki L. - February 28

I tried to post a reply on your question page, but it wouldn't go through. Anxious Ashley - good morning hun, and you can do this (i know you miss him so much that it doesn't feel like you can, but trust me, you can do this). I am sure everything is going to be okay. I am an army wife, and just went through my husband's first deployment last year- one of the hardest things i have ever done in my life is to be seperated from him like that for 12 months, and i know it must be scary for you since you do not feel comfotable sharing this info with anyone else. but please try and stay calm for the little one inside you, especially since you have high bp. the spotting is probably just from stress, try to take it easy. Oh, you said that you haven't heard from your fiancee in 24 hours, please try not to stress about that, - from experience - sometimes my husband was unable to contact me for 3-4 days at a time - it just all depends on how the mission is going and how busy our soldiers schedules are keeping them. (i also had some major trust issues with my soldier) - but trust me, they are kept way too busy to even think of cheating, i am sure all he is thinking about is you and your little one. It always helped me to sit down and write my husband a long letter when i missed him to the point that i couldn't stand it anymore - maybe that will help you. please let me know if you need to talk - i am on and off of this site a few times a day, everyday. good luck Ashley and try to keep yourself calm :)

 

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