Sex Drive Increased Or Decreased

19 Replies
at - January 7

I was curious for all you first trimester ladies, how is your s_x drive? Mine is completely gone! My husband is on edge because he wants it and I don't. I don't know how to handle it and was wondering if any body else is in the same boat.

 

Carissa - January 8

My s_x drive is gone also! My husband is also going crazy. What I do even though I don't want to is I help him to pleasure himself but I don't ask for anything in return because I'm just turned off. I don't know what it is but I don't feel s_xy. It's been about 2 months since my husband and I had s_x. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one feeling this way. I hope it stops soon and my s_x drive will be back to normal!

 

AshleyB - January 8

I completely lost my drive as soon as I got pregnant. Poor hubby, newlyweds still and he pretty much got cut-off. UNfortunately we lost the baby and I was amazed that 2days after the d&c my drive was in high gear-which was really weird because I hadn't felt that way for the past 11wks. Good Luck to you guys, i've heard the 2nd tri. will perk you all up.

 

Deb - January 8

GONE, GONE GONE!!! My dh isn't bugging me at all, but it's probably because he is exhausted from doing everything around the house! I have been so sick I practically live on the couch. He has been wonderful, but I don't even want him to touch me!

 

Been There - January 8

I'm somewhere in between. The drive has died down, but there are days when I can be persuaded. On the days when I'm not interested, I just allow him to have some and don't worry about enjoying it. It really doesn't bother me to let him enjoy himself with me. It actually gets me in the mood sometimes.

 

Cicely-LJ - January 9

Thank Goodness I am not the only one. My husband is too through with me he is frustrated, Just last night he told me he can't deal with having s_x once a week. But it takes me all week to get up the energy and talk myself into giving him that much to please him. But I don't even want to be bother or touched and it's frustrating having s_x and not even enjoying it or feeling much of anything. It helps to know I'm not the only one going through this but boy I wish I could get past this feel as well as the m/s.

 

dy - January 9

mine was totally gone. the last couple of weeks. the thought of it made me sick. i'm 9 weeks now and in t he last couple of days, it's back and better than ever. tell your hubby not to worry.

 

cat - January 9

I completely lost my drive through weeks 5-11, I didn't want to be touched or help him out. However at 13 weeks I finally feel a lot better (able to get off the couch) and have my life back, my s_x life has increased increadibly that I'm making up for lost time. :)

 

louise1710 - January 10

Ok I must be strange, I'm 5 weeks, and my s_x drive has gone huge, my poor boyfriend cant keep up!!! Just cant get enough, hopefully it will slow down a bit towards the end!

 

elizabeth - January 10

Mine is definately GONE!!! = ( Last time I had s_x I had some cramping in my lower abdomen- anyone else experience this? I am afraid to have s_x again.

 

leslie - January 10

Mines not really here anymore.. lol. It comes and goes, but I think it mainly just has to do with the fact that Im soooooooooo sleepy all of the time. I cant seem to get in the mood.. I just want to go to bed!

 

ChaycesMom - January 10

My drive has completely gone. It was the same with my first. I have terrible m/s that lasts all day long. The thought of s_x makes me nauseaus right now too. I know hubby is getting frustrated, but I just dont want to be touched. I am 8 weeks, hope it gets better.

 

Erica - January 10

To Carissa: Mine is GONE. I can't even stand to have my husband breathe on me because I'm afraid he'll want it to lead to s_x so I'm constantly pushing him away. He's always trying, so I give in once a week. Hiopefully next semester will be better To Elizabeth: It's probably just fine. It's perfectly normal to have lower abdominal cramps, much like menstrual cramps after an orgasm. If you look it up on the internet there are lots of rea__suring sites ...lol, i know, i've been to probably all of them.

 

krc - January 11

I have none whatsoever! Last time I was in the sac was when I conceived !!! haha Well I have a reason though...my baby's father pa__sed away a week after we conceived. But honestly if he were still here with me I dont think I'd have a s_x drive, I dont even daydream about it. I see it on tv and I think...boring! haha Now that im single and pregnant I probably wont get lucky for a looong time. What a shame!

 

at - January 13

wow-lots of answers on this topic! I am so relieived that I am not in this alone. Infact I am copy and pasting this into an email and emailing it to him, so he thinks I am not making it up..... I have a hard time even "giving in." I am always soooo bloated and every time we do have s_x my uterus completely hardens up and it feels uncomfortable. (is this normal?) I am 12 weeks 4 days and though my m/s has lightened up considerably, I still get bloated, constipated, heart burn, indigestion and feel aweful in those ways. I told him it gets better, but he only gets p__sy with me and makes comments that I used him for s_x to get pregnant and then the minute I got pregnant didn't give a d__n...sigggggggggg I wish men had more than a one track mind!

 

Baby - January 16

My first pregnancy ..I was so h__y ...I could not get enough ..and this one I have to pretend to want it, but i have only done it about 2 times because I am high risk .I am pretending i want it when i really could care less

 

Baby - January 16

My first pregnancy ..I was so h__y ...I could not get enough ..and this one I have to pretend to want it, but i have only done it about 2 times because I am high risk .I am pretending i want it when i really could care less my body is changing I dont feel s_xy,but before hand i could have it 4 times a day and that was not enough lol

 

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