To Move Or Not To Move To Another State HELP Quot

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Milissa - April 13

Okay here is my story.. My husband mother moved with her boyfriend to North Carolina (they have been together 5yrs) and we are really close. My husband and I moved back to MI from FL when I was 6 mos pregnant so she can be with her first grandchild. Now she hits us with her boyfriend found a good job with Energizer. He has been looking for about a year BUT she never new what she was going to do( stay or go). well a month ago she hit us with she's going. WE are p___sed off because we would have never moved back here if she was going to pick up and leave us. Now she's sending us stuff about apartments and trying to get us down there. Michigan is really bad for jobs and there are none. My husband and I are having money problems and Ins problems. They have tons of jobs there ALOT" But we just moved into a new home about 3 months ago and now another baby. We have been fighting about it sense she left, I think we should just stay, he wants to go. But it cost alot of money to get there 2 cars, dog, cat & kid,all your stuff. My cars transmission just went its going to cost 650.00 dollars to fix and its going to cost like 2,000 just to get there.. his moms boyfriend is willing to lend us the 2,000 to get there,but thats money we can't begine to pay back. I know he needs a better job for the family, But are we moving just because they did? They are the once that left not us and my son is very, very hurt over all this(2 1/2). Now we realy have no family! his dads side of the family live's in FL all of them now (his dad is dead) and now his mom gone. What the h__l should I do. I want to just begin to move on! and come to grips that we don't have that kind of money. Energizer payed for all of the move for them to get there. Please some advice or a little word would be great! My husband feels everyone has left him and his health from all of the stress and bullshit is taking its toll. We have just got married last July 04, and we had to pay for all of it. we have lost what we thought was to close friends one to cocaine use and one to just has become and ass. I have stoped talking to my bother because took us for alot of money around the time of the wedding. I'm not close with my parents never have been. I'm really starting to lose my faith...i'm lost and need some pick me up........ I would love to just have aleast one friend that I can trust or is that a thing of the past? and family is very important to both of us but we can't keep following everyone else around.....I don't even know where to begin anymore................I just wish the hurting would stop for awhile and for the fake people to stay out of our live's!!!!!!!!!!!

 

!! - April 13

I know its long but please take a moment to read"

 

NM - April 13

Hi Milissa, I am not sure what to tell you. I think that this is something you and your husband need to decide on. I wish I could help you more. I wish you and your husband all the luck!

 

Milissa - April 13

thank you NM, its just realy hard and very scary. what to do what not to do, what IF....... ya know

 

NM - April 13

I know. Try to relax, you really don't need all this stress.

 

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