Wonder When To Tell People I Miscarried At 13 Weeks

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Kar - January 16

Hey Gals, I'm now 32 weeks preggo.....but I just wanted to let you gals know that I miscarried when I was 13 weeks............ and my doc told me that that is not uncommon to miscarry at 13 weeks. We had told our families before and it was nice to have their support during that time.

 

kerryv - January 16

I dont understand the point of this post.

 

sahmof3 - January 16

Do you mean you were supposed to be 32 weeks and lost it at 13 or the one you lost at 13 weeks was a different pregnancy. I'm confused. Anyway, after mine I found it easier to tell one or two friends or family members and have them call and tell acquaintances, so I didn't have to repeat it. But, I told people that I'm closer to myself, if that makes sense? At my church they announced it a week when I wasn't there. I think it spared people that I'm not real close to the awkwardness of not knowing what to say.

 

molliejoy - January 19

I miscarried at 12 weeks and my doc said, don't tell many people until your 2nd trimester to make sure baby is doing good. I am only about 4 weeks along now and we aren't telling anyone until 16 weeks, when we find out what it is. Do you think this is too long? I just don't want to deal with people comparing my belly or giving their opinions yet. I think Kar was just reminding everyone of the fact miscarriage is a high risk until the 2nd trimester.

 

Kar - January 20

Thank you Molliejoy......I was just doing that as some many wonder "when to tell people". Grumpy group around here.....thank you for your input!! And good luck hope all is well!!

 

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