15 And Pregnant I Need Some Help

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Corrine321 - March 16

Hey I'm 15 years old and 26 weeks pregnant... Well my boyfriend and I always had unprotected s_x after I "thought" I was pregnant in August but I wasnt.. The thing is, is he came in me everytime we had s_x and we had s_x every weekend once or more times...Well I went to this party and I had s_x with this other guy and he never used protection.. It was a week after my period and I am very scared that it might not be my boyfriends... Because my boyfriend and I had s_x everyweekend and he came in me... and that one time was a ONE time thing! If you had to guess who do you think the dad is? I do really think it is my boyfriends.. but I'm just worried, were getting a DNA test just cause i'm so young and I'm getting WIC... So please someone tell me what the chances are!!! I got pregnant (according to the doctor) around the 24th-28th... please help me!!!

 

Helpme - March 16

dont worry as long as you baby is healthy it will all be fine you can sort out dna once the baby is born

 

kristie h - March 16

Hi, it would be realy hard to say who the dad is.It only takes that once to become pregnant. Does your bf even know you slept behind his back? Did they ever teach you safe s_x at school?

 

Corrine321 - March 16

Yes he know Kristie... and you dont need to be rude about it.. at the party I was drunk and se was he and we never used protection! My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years and he's 19! I just wanted someone to TELL ME not lecture me!!!

 

kristie h - March 16

Hi Corrine, Im not being rude well i didnt mean for it to sound that way. I ment that you should of used protection with the other guy not you bf no matter how drunk you were. See alot of ppl dont think of it like this but if it is the other guys baby do you know anything about his family history? Is there any dissabiltys in his family ect. If you dont know you need to find out for the baby future sake. Get back to me and NO i am not being rude im being realistic.

 

Corrine321 - March 16

Hey Kristie, well yeah i know him and stuff... but okay who do you think the father is? cause my boyfriend has been "c_mming" in me then... and the other guy pulled out... and the doctor said i got pregnant around the end of the month and i never had s_x with him then...

 

Kaisa - March 16

Well seeing as your bf has came in you multiple times and the other guy pulled out I would say your chances of the baby being your bf is very high. although there is that tiny chance it is the other guys. OK not to confuse you but your due date can actually be up to 2 weeks before or after the due date you got from ultrasound. Please try not to get to stressed out over this because stress is the number one leading cause of premature labor. And the most important things right now should be the health of you and your child. I was 15 when I got pregnant with my daughter and she was born 9 weeks early, so eat healthy foods and relax!! If you have anymore questions or just need someone to talk to Im here.

 

Kaisa - March 16

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Corrine321 - March 16

Hey Kaisa, thanks for telling me who you think it is... I do think it is his baby (boyfriends) I mean i guess there is a small chance.. but still... thank you my e-mail is [email protected]

 

monkey123 - March 16

It's more likely to be your boyfriend's...no reason to fret about it though...you can't be too sure that the other dude pulled out in time. I don't mean to lecture you, but please do be careful in the future. I was careless as you were around your age & I caught a couple of STDs. It wasn't fun to find out, I can tell you that.

 

bambina - March 17

Hey Corrine. I agree with most. It is most likely your boyfriend's, the odds are in his favor. The most important thing to do is NOT TO STRESS, you gotta make sure both you and that little person inside you stay healthy. So don't get yourself all worked up over who's it is. Once you find out, you find out and you will both decide what to do from there. Until then, just make sure you take care of yourself! And no matter who's baby it is, It is YOURS and that is something very special. I am 16 weeks (very new to this and kinda scared and Im 23!!!!). Oh, by the way... this might help you with an answer. I had my last period 11/25, I had s_x on December 1st and then got a bladder infection. My doc at the clinic says even tho I had s_x on the 1st, the baby wasn't actually conceived until 12/10. (Usually at the clinic they have those circle calenders, put in the day of your last period, and it will give you the due date and the date of conception... you can probably pin point who is after that???? Hope it helps.I wish you the best!!!!!!!

 

Corrine321 - March 17

Bambina- Hey yeah the doctor told me i conceived on the 26th of september.. and I was with my boyfriend! So thanks for telling me that.. Monkey123-I had all those test taken... and they all came out negative! so yeah! I have nothing to worry about there! Thank you for your answers!

 

Karen S - March 17

Corrine321 why did you post that comment on the help needed forum about you getting pregnant from your boyfriend the first time you two ever had s_x and he had a condom? Thats not what is says on here. Just wondering which story is real here.

 

Corrine321 - March 17

Karen.. We used a condum one time! but all the other times we never did! and he came in me! so yeah!! sorry i didnt mention that in this post!

 

Karen S - March 17

So have you found out the s_x of the baby yet? Have you thougth of any names? Is your boyfriend excited? Good Luck with everything Im sure it will be fine.

 

jg - March 17

Corrine, who did you have s_x with around the 24th-28th? That will give you your answer.

 

jg - March 17

Woops just read all the posts - looks like your question is answered!!

 

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