Am I Fertile

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We want a baby!! HELP ME!!!! - September 11

My girl friend and I have been having s_x regularly for almost 2 years. June 03 she had a miscarriage at 2 months. We haven't slowed down with s_x or changed anything about what we do. I have gone in her a few times, but most of the time I pull out, but we all know that no man can make sure nothing gets out before he pulls out. She hasn't been pregnant since the miscarriage, and we have s_x no matter what stage of her cycle she is on. It can't be her body because she has a regular cycle. When I was younger I used to smoke weed, but I haven't done that in 6 years. I've had 4 s_xual partners (including my present girlfriend) but was tested after the 3rd and everything was clean, so I don't know what could be wrong. Am I infertile or what? Please help me, we really want a baby!!!

 

HELP!! - September 6

Would someone please answer me. I need help!!!!

 

Jamie - September 6

Obviously you cant be infertile if she has miscarried before, It may make more than once to get her pregnant just once may not be the charm. Try when she is ovulating, that should do the trick!...You can get strips at the local drug store to find if she is ovulating or not. But I really dont think that you are infertile at all!

 

Viv - September 6

This is a mixed message. If "we want a baby" is true, why are you pulling out? What am I missing? Have s_x every other day during the middle of the month and come in her, missionary position. Have her stay on her back for a while so that the sperm has time to get where it has to go. It takes a year of trying for a couple in their early 20s to reach the +90% probability level. Relax and enjoy.

 

HELP!! - September 7

We used to practice pull out before we decided we wanted a baby. That was a mis-type on my part. I just find it weird that so many other people get pregnant without even trying but we are trying... and I guess I am just scared that it is my fault that we cannot conceive.

 

Rosa - September 7

Don't lose faith. My husband and I tried to get pregnant for 6 years. We went through 2 miscarriages early on. We were both tested and told that nothing was wrong with either one of us. I was a very frustrating time for the both of us. About a year ago, I decided to give up on the idea of having children of my own. We were open to the idea of adoption and decided that that was the route we would take in a year or two. I am 32 years old and am entering into my second trimester. I know how you both feel. Just don't take the frustration out on each other. You have been able to get her pregant, so just make sure she gets enough rest and takes care of her body. Good Luck!!! Don't lose faith.

 

Lorraine - September 11

If she got pregnant once by one then you are not infertile. If you are trying to get pregnant then you should not pull out. You want to get as much s____n in her as you possibly can so stop w/that. We tried for years & the doctor said it was because of the stress and pressure we were putting on ourselves. When we gave up on getting pregnant, we got pregnant. It will happen but you have to relax! Best wishes.

 

Victoria - September 11

My brother used to smoke weed & had three kids when he was doing it (not that it is right). They are all healthy and intelligent. If you got her pregnant once, you will get her pregnant again. Pulling out is not the answer to PREGNANCY though. Have s_x around the ovulation time every 48 hours. Relax & enjoy-- You will have a baby on the way.

 

Eva - September 11

Read trying to have a baby.... post. This might help.

 

Joy - September 11

Stop being so hard on yourself first of all. Have s_x around the 14th day after her period started. Have s_x in the morning every 2-3 days. After s_x having her raise her hips into the air for approx. 10 min. and she will get pregnant before you know it. We tried for years and could not get pregnant. Several friends suggested the above method-- first month we tried it, boom, we got pregnant (first baby might I add). You have to relax though. You will also find that you will enjoy it more if you relax. Lots of luck.

 

dalesgirl - September 15

If you are indeed trying to have a baby, try this method. Start with the first day of her period and count 8 days, start having s_x every 2 days to 16 days past the first day of her period. It won't necessarily happen the first time. There is actually only a 25% chance for a woman to get pregnant even if she has s_x during her most fertile part of the month. Remember, a woman is only Fertile for 6 - 24 hours a month.

 

Jane - September 15

Why do you pull out?!?!?

 

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