Am I Still A Mother

7 Replies
sad - January 31

I've recently had a miscarriage. Can I still say I've been a mother? Very sad......

 

Absolutely - January 31

Yes you can! You will always be a mother and don't think any differently. I am so sorry for your loss.

 

so have i just had 1 - April 20

I never thought of it that way but yes we are mothers

 

~S~ - April 20

Of course you are. You had life inside of you, don't ever think that you weren't or aren't.

 

Karen - April 20

yes you are. I know how you feel. I felt the same way when I had mine. I cried constantly and felt like a mother who actually held, loved and raised her own living child. Just want to let you know it gets better. Pray for healing and it will come. I can speak from experience that no matter how many children you have the first one is always taught of. I am in my second trimester and I still cry from the loss of my first child. I even gave the child a name and talk to the child now and then and ask God to tell her how much I love her and no on can replace her. I was too young to tell if it was a boy or girl but the night I loss her I had a dream of a beautiful baby girl (this help with my healing). Take care. Lov

 

A - April 20

Yes, you will always be a mother. It may be just a fetus to the doctors, but it was your baby. It's true what Karen says. You will never forget the child you lost, no matter what happens. I think it's a really good idea to name the baby too. It's cliche but time really does heal, and you will eventually learn to cope with your loss. So sorry you have to go through this. Big hug to you.

 

Heavenly - April 20

Yes you can little momma! I am very sorry for your loss sweetie.

 

Karen - April 21

I also went on Amozon.com and got some really good books on coping with miscarriages( Get the ones rated a five or four star). They also helped me. My heart goes out to you. Take care

 

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